Dope Tech Episode 2

<<@TomBilyeu says : WARNING: I will never ask for your contact info in the comments section, that is someone impersonating me!>> <<@invisibleman4827 says : Five or ten years ago, Reeves would've been called a "misogynist" for this. That's how bad this is.>> <<@SteveMilo-p9q says : I’m over 30. At no time in my life have “breaks” been applied to women. Going through school when I was young women weren’t held back. They weren’t told they couldn’t do things. All of a sudden when I started going to highschool and college it started coming out that women were somehow being held back. It never made sense to me. And all of a sudden I was being targeted and ridiculed and told I needed to step aside and let women take charge. At no point in my life have I been racist or sexist, but all of a sudden people start bringing up how women didn’t have the same rights historically. Okay. But they do now. Why am I being punished for what past generations did? Why is the emotional baggage of what past generations did coming down on me? What exactly did I do wrong in the world? Nothing. I’ve done nothing wrong. And yet somehow I’m just a “mean white man.” Typical bullshit.>> <<@soccersoma says : TLDR for everyone about to watch this- men are useless-women are better in every way. Men are redundant and will not be needed in society in the future. That is the basic summary of this whole video. Best of luck!>> <<@gbrebner says : Beta boys.>> <<@angelitagatica says : Violence against women and children by men has increased. Instead of just focusing on making money, men should work on their emotional availability, intelligence, and vulnerability. Developing a good character is far more attractive and engaging than wealth alone.>> <<@donnarichardson7214 says : It's incomprehensible that men should be "redundant" because women are economically independent. What this REALLY means is that women won't put up with abusive, emotionally immature males. If men are properly socialized to treat women as equal human beings with equal rights, men are ESSENTIAL to the emotional health of women and children. But they no longer can get away with being bullies and demanding sex in exchange for protection and providing. Pretty basic.>> <<@marcogiammarchi1729 says : Boys suicide is 5 times higher than girls" but "they are struggling similarly*. Clearly, the problem is in society. And even in well intentioned people.>> <<@wendellbabin6457 says : 1:01:55 Okay. BUT. And a HUGE one. It don't work, PERIOD, the instant the male even gets a WHIFF on an Ant's Fart of a breeze that sex MIGHT not be on the table at ANY POINT. Next week, later, on the full moon on a Tuesday. Whatever. And not that they don't take circumstances into account, or are totally unreasonable. I guess what I jave heard is more like women trying to negotiate time frames "In Advance" that it will be and he will have to choke these down, or else, types of deal. Becomes more and more items where the "Juice just is NOT worth the squeeze" any more. Not even worth the negotiation or even the attempt. Passport bros are becoming the EXPAT Bros.>> <<@wendellbabin6457 says : 45:17 naaah. That is probably proof that what men could provide was ALWAYS a LARGE portion of what women were attracted to/by in men. Essentially SAME as men, just the individual "Whats" each would bail over, whether before during or after" wedding, mating dating or whatever was Evolutionarily or Culturally ascendant in whichever "Epoch".>> <<@wendellbabin6457 says : 45:17 naaah. That is probably proof that what men could provide was ALWAYS a LARGE portion of what women were attracted to/by in men. Essentially SAME as men, just the individual "Whats" each would bail over, whether before during or after" wedding, mating dating or whatever was Evolutionarily or Culturally ascendant in whichever "Epoch".>> <<@wendellbabin6457 says : 16:26 ONLY SOME WOMEN THAT CAN "QUALIFY" OR EVWN WANT TO! But they are being taught to hate or at LEAST distrust ALL men by these same Femi-Nazis. Meanwhile they have subsequently OBLITERATED AND IGNORED if not PATHOLOGICALLY actively hindered if jot entirely ELIMINATED any chance of men even ASPIRING to succeed. In ANYTHING, except for that tiny 5 percent or so of whom you couldn't stop from succeeding unless you murdered them. Then have the gall to wonder where "All the good men are."! You took all their jobs and never created more to replace them. And have been actively doing everything humanly possible to get rid of all the fall back options for them to at least build an EXISTENCE with the WOMEN left behind as well. En masse. Often the ENTIRE INDUSTRIES, multiple ones. Ans then blaming THEM for the failure to get NONEXISTENT Employment. Then greenlight tsunamis of immigrants to take any left because they cannot even exist in the wages those jobs pay and Vote Farm them when they try to hold BOTH PARTIES accountable by giving them "the Finger" at the ballot box until they finally are forced to give ip on THAT as well.>> <<@steveballard515 says : We could tell them that they have to go to uni and get some bs Mickey Mouse degree (gender studies) instead of getting a trade and making a worthwhile contribution to society>> <<@ValiantThor-lg2hj says : Men will be the first to enter the Matrix.>> <<@DavidBessette-o5m says : Gentlemen we are never celebrated for the positive things we do !! If society really cares about men and boys ,why is suicide up ,prison population up,homelessness up ,why are there no replacement jobs for men who lost their jobs to automation ,affirmative actions, female quotas ,why are there no programs for men ,why is there no assistance for men to help find work ,why are there no scholarships or student loans for men and boys ,wht does society constanly spit in the face of all men and coincidently take away their roles and find anything that men can find a real purpose in !! As you said they have lost purpose and drive and when society attacks men in every way why do you think these men and boys check out ? 1 the are falsely accused of crimes they did not commit 2 they get me tooed just for saying hello 3 they get shamed for attempting to ask women out on dates ,they get shamed for minding their own business at the gym ,the school system is always against men and boys ,boys cant survive the college experience where women have the power and males are subjugated by their rules ,the institution of marriage is against men ,the family courts are against men ,why are mens spaces being forced open where men cant have that option ? Why are men portrayed on tv as dumb ,stupid and incompetent, why are male heroes being gender swapped and race swapped ,why is every tv show a constant joke about men ,why are movies so heavily against solid male leads and going woke ? Gentlemen this society is so toxic and misandrist that men have no real opportunity to be successful and the men realizing this have checked out, they have gone mgtow ,passport brothers ,mra ,and the right !! No one helps men !! Gentlemen these problems are the real reason why there is bad outcomes for men !!>> <<@charlesdexterward7781 says : @44:15 Complete bullshit. Yeah, men are the ones more anxious to get married. "How else can I get me a piece of family courts??">> <<@JNYDELRSOLSRIP says : Two middle class academic pricks shooting the breeze at something they will never understand. For example, a man never puts up with a "BOSS" babe. A "SIMP" does that!>> <<@jahbern says : So much essentializing here by Tom. So much time spent talking about childbearing as being what women are “for” and breadwinning as what men are “for.” Both are wrong. Men and women are not “for” anything other than creating the lives they think are best for themselves and their family and society. Men are no longer necessary as breadwinners - but they are necessary for SO MANY OTHER reasons. Why aren’t any of those reasons valid or enough? Women were given the choice to be something other than child bearers if they wanted and they jumped at the chance. Men were given the choice to be something - ANYTHING - other than breadwinners (but also can still BE breadwinners) and so many are saying “no, thanks. I have no purpose if I’m not in charge or the most important or paid the most” Why? Why isn’t being a caregiver or a fellow breadwinner enough?>> <<@TheCivicsiep3 says : Yea women are no better than men in any way actually even with no brakes almost all major breakthroughs are made by men with and WITHOUT education. Just because girls are more educated does not indicate they are in any way superior to men. Girls are known to be followers tell them education is important and to sit down and shut up and they’ll do it. Men aren’t like that they are free thinkers and aren’t so easily influenced. I’m rly not understanding what the point of these sorts or talks are? Is it to say men are trash and as a result of modernity no longer needed? This does nothing to help men what are u getting at with this? Men need to be told the opposite you are superior to women in every metric and always have been the world exists as it does because of men. Stop raising boys in a society that tells them something is wrong with them how is this being missed by all these brainiacs with podcasts? Girls don’t get raised being told you suck your a girl in fact it’s the exact opposite. Cut the bullshit about biology and all this. This is a society that hates to see men succeed so of course they won’t. The fact there are still so many successful Men should tell u just how amazing men really are. Even with the deck fully stacked against them they still prevail. This podcast is sad that this guy is supposed to be an authority on the topic yet doesn’t have anything to say about the true reason boys suffer in todays society>> <<@jamesjacobs3753 says : 20 minutes in and this is just about women. Did I misread the thumbnail?>> <<@StuJones-gn7te says : Something I've noticed, as someone who finished college at 36. College grads tend (like these men) to see college as an essential step to full adulthood and decent earnings. Those ideas are not true. Oil riggers, truck drivers, plumbers, electricians and carpenters (among others) earn far above the median income. None require college. Women today expect their men to earn more than the women do. In recent polls, 1.5 times as much. When most women weren't working, this was not an issue. Now that more women graduate from college, fewer men will fit that criterion alone. College graduates also expect potential mates to be white collar, so those wealthy plumbers and oil riggers can forget it. Another interesting thing is, most women now also expect men to be over 6 feet tall. Last I checked, that was only about 15% of all men. If you combine all these standards, we end up somewhat less than 5% of the men that women even would consider. That's without even thinking about any emotional connections. Add to that, over 70% of American women are overweight or obese. 40% of all children are born to unwed mothers. 28 is the average age of first marriage for American women and initial loss of virginity is before 18, which implies around 10+ years (on average) of promiscuous behsvior. Studies say women admit to 6 lifetime sex partners on average (which probably means 18 in reality). Thus: About 1 in 20 men is acceptable to most women. About 1 in between 3 and 10 women is acceptable to most men. Result: most men realize that women really don't want them and odds are, even if they did, the women would probably cheat and eventually divorce them and take everything they had. A little math shows that college is expensive. It might eventually pay for itself, but there are no guarantees. More math shows that a single man can get by with far less than a single woman can and much less than a married couple can, not to mention kids. So, even if I earn half what I could as a college graduate, I still can end up with more at the end of the day than a typical married college professor. Without the nagging. And everything I have is MINE.>> <<@harmonicabraceforguitar1523 says : Even though women have been promoted to be bread winners, society still expects men to be richer than women. Divorced men are treated in courts like some dude who knock up this wife like a high school womanizer. No father's rights. This is not a culture problem but is legalized in law. Men don't have any rights. Especially White men.>> <<@harmonicabraceforguitar1523 says : Even though women have been promoted to be bread winners, society still expects men to be richer than women. Divorced men are treated in courts like some dude who knock up this wife like a high school womanizer. No father's rights. This is not a culture problem but is legal in law. Men don't have any rights. Especially White men.>> <<@harmonicabraceforguitar1523 says : I remember when I was in High School in 1970, feeling depressed because there was so much propaganda in history class and women's liberation being taught that women were victims and men were bad.>> <<@wellthisisinteresting4912 says : this man is so mature and well adjusted, I wish he were my dad lol. actually, the way they both talk about their wives is so heart warming. there is hope>> <<@curiosi-tea6914 says : The fact that anyone is seriously asking "Are men necessary?" Shows just how delusional our world has become.>> <<@mm5478 says : Great guest. The host needs therapy STAT.>> <<@jimmymane2960 says : Women will not need a man to feed their children??? Thats where the boy crisis starts. Women abuse that! "We dont need men">> <<@jimmymane2960 says : Tom is brilliant - He has great values ❤>> <<@pawemarciniak4929 says : How to turn boys into men? It's very simple, I do it in 10 minutes in the GP's office, in the presence of their mothers: "You always had to be and still have to be a warrior, you still have to sacrifice because you don't bear children, simple as that. And women still expect that from you. If you don't provide them with a sense of security from your loved one who talks nonsense that 'you can cry, you can show "weakness" you will get your ass kicked very quickly - it lasts about 1/2 year, first you will be banned from having sex, then she will start to chill the relationship, then she will start provoking you so that you are to blame for breaking up the relationship. She is stupid and petty like a spoiled child who has never been punched in the face for bad behavior, because she has never been punched in the face for bad behavior, and a spoiled child always looks for a guardian who will impose discipline on him, force him to behave properly and do not tolerate cheating, manipulation. It's thanks to you and your ruthless attitude (don't feel sorry for her no matter how much you love her and don't feel sorry for yourself) You will be surprised how she will quickly notice that thanks to your strong hand she is becoming a better woman and she will be grateful to you for it. I tell the boys these words and they immediately change, change for the better, get a twinkle in their eye and raise their heads. Their mothers have never denied these words or held any grudges against me>> <<@BryanHunter1974 says : I think male agency is frowned upon in today's society, and young boys are overly medicated and socially feminized at a young age. Boys are no longer able to be boys as we have socially done away with rough-and-tumble play while simultaneously promoting male toxicity. Socially, we have moved from men and women complimenting each other to competing and even replacing one another. There is no turning back the clock, and the future seems extremely uncertain; hopefully, we can collectively pull through.>> <<@EricMHowardII-yh1rn says : E. Jean Carroll What are men for ?>> <<@KARRIEMABDUL says : You are comparing today's men with today's women. They are very different from yesterday's men and women. Today's women create today's men.>> <<@ChrisHarperKC says : Tom doesn't have kids. Not sure I want his opinion on this.>> <<@ankra12 says : The rolls has flipped. Now men feel more trapped.>> <<@OliverArnold-do9gj says : Because we have to give them title nine and special privileges they can't do it on their own that's why America is collapsing because women stepped out of the road that God put them here for>> <<@OliverArnold-do9gj says : When I took the brakes off them and they turned into whores>> <<@OliverArnold-do9gj says : You'll need to talk to women about when men completely check out a society how the power bridge was shut down in the rest of society>> <<@martytracey6205 says : Society has put the brakes on men, and promote girls and women over boys and men. Some examples are the overwhelming financial assistance for girls and women in education, and corporate hiring. The guest appears to be a feminist. 🤔>> <<@Iamhere829 says : 1:01:20 THISSS…As a woman.. This is what me and most of the women i know need.. Not a traditional man.. But a man who has breadwinning POTENTIAL.. Less focus on breadwinning and more focus on POTENTIAL!!! For example; In a problematic household… Men who are lazy often use weaponised incompetence by ruining simple household tasks so that women have to do it for them.. resulting in women being overwhelmed by their job,chores and children while men sit on the sofa and burp. Least you can do is develop enough emotional intelligence to notice when your partner is overwhelmed and step in to do the bare minimum shtick…smh..>> <<@jochananberohart3578 says : Every Ism has the danger to get into dogmatism with the time. Therefore, in the present, we must overcome feminism and bring it back to humanism, to return from the narrowed view to the diversity and wholeness of human life worlds and challenges.>> <<@philodonoghue3062 says : Empathy means empathising WITH people LIKE you. So women don’t have any empathy for boys and men. Females do empathy; men do sympathy - for others.>> <<@philodonoghue3062 says : Women are never told to “Woman up”.>> <<@anthonyreeves5248 says : iron John Robert Bly, this speaks of the metaphoric and practical rituals for boys to become men>> <<@behelertrespass7002 says : Not only are the two guys midwits but they are clueless about history and get tricked by woman in their lifes daily lmao>> <<@scottk1525 says : One problem with men these days is that a large percentage of them are underdeveloped physically. It's like they only made it 75% of the way through puberty. I'm talking about the pandemic of adult men that look like Timothy Chalamet, Tom Holland, or Jesse Eisenberg. Men that will look 19 until they're 40. And even then they'll look like teenagers with wrinkles and grey hair. Women too. Think of Emilia Clarke, Zendaya, Miley Cyrus or Emma Watson. These are just examples, but these semi-adults are absolutely everywhere these days. Rewind the clock a few decades and it was only a small percentage of men (or women) that looked like this. In the 70s, even college aged men looked like young 30 year olds. 9/10 men were growing 2 o'clock shadows. Stroll on to any college campus now, and it feels like you're at a middle school. You won't see young Harrison Fords, Nicolas Cages and Anthony Hopkins. The majority of students have welpy bone structures, smooth skin, patchy facial hair, gentle voices, etc... It's probably due to the food and various other chemicals we are chronically exposed to disrupting hormones and tinkering with development. I recently read that average testosterone levels have dropped 20-30% in the last few decades. And girls are starting to enter puberty as early 9 these days. Yikes!>> <<@gildedage88 says : wife worshipper, daughter idolator = American virtue signal = protestant buffoon>> <<@wilfred309 says : married men are more productive and incentiviced to provide>> <<@geoffbeaton8231 says : There are a lot of words in the discussion and comments; no answers to the questions asked is indicative of our international social commentary. Everyone is right and wrong at the same time. Maybe the answer is for modern feminism to be allowed to evolve so that the outspoken feminists agree that they have achieved their goal of seeing women taking their rightful place in society. I am not sure what that rightful place is, but once that is achieved, maybe society will have swung back around to being sensible and the question can be asked about what a boy or man is supposed to be without the narrative being bombarded by the feminine narrative. The feminism issue being resolved will give clear air to the boy man issue. I was brought up to put females first and it didn't seem to be a problem then. Just saying.>> <<@illiJomusic says : Thank you>>