Dope Tech Episode 2

<<@Yullothinker says : Faaahh this woman hadn’t even slept for 10 years it doesn’t mean what they need to is to enjoy life they have some freedom but they don’t have big freedom>> <<@AGskatez_223 says : not everything needs to be a vile war for control. in reality, parenting should land somewhere in between. by just letting your child choose whatever they want, they will grow up to believe that life is fair and that they have a say in everything. by being too controlling over your child and not giving them any choice in their life, you are teaching them that they do not have to make their own decisions, and more often than not, this can lead a child to become easily manipulated by potential predators, abusive governments, etc. instead, what you could do is teach your child how to make healthy decisions, ones that will aid them as they grow into adults. children are not objects to control, they will become real and functioning adults soon enough.>> <<@SamuelFernandes-s4g says : This woman Sound so passiv aggressiv....>> <<@MichelleDuncan-y2t says : I'm picturing myself having a sweet time with my daughter, shopping and enjoying teaching her to enjoy meal planning together while this lady watches us, judging my parenting. My daughter cooks with me and its a very bonding experience. How about instead of judging other parents in the grocery store, pause and consider that you may not have all the information to criticize people you don't even know.>> <<@Tyler2-o3s says : My parents give me slight choice bc i have horrible texture issues like bananas they make me throw up bc of the texture and slimey foods>> <<@patman2468 says : I love this>> <<@dennis_troeger says : Balance is key. I ask my child the same as I ask an grown up. And not always it’s what the child want and sometimes it’s not what I want. Living good by that - and he it’s his broccolis.>> <<@legofunworld9217 says : Take want you want? Are you ok? Children need to learn to make decision.>> <<@legofunworld9217 says : My good, you're so terrible.>> <<@pseudonympseudonym2595 says : Why not ask the other humans in your life what they’d like? It’s ok to respect children. It’s okay to give them what they prefer. Why the hell not? Is there some value to selfishness?>> <<@Zebulization says : Too much freedom theses days? What about when children could roam the neighborhood unsupervised? These days if a child goes to the corner store unsupervised child protective services are called. I know my grandfather used to do that all the time. What is this about too much freedom?>> <<@humantacos9800 says : I give mine choices and hold them to their choices; that’s life too>> <<@NoGreaterLove_3 says : There is nothing wrong with helping the child to develop their executive skills in an age appropriate way by teaching them how to make a choice. Yes it should consist out of two things or even three max, but still there is nothing wrong with that. It has nothing to do with being a child and learning obedience to parents. The way this is presented in this short is pretty unpleasant and it looks frustrated. I would not listen to it. Jordan Peterson is just a man, as is this woman. Just people like everyone else. Noone should be elevated to anything more except God. What we need to do is we need to stop listening to random people on the internet! 👍🏻😄 Just read the bible and use common sense.>> <<@fr3ckmula782 says : Preach !!!>> <<@GreenTheReaperPT says : She escalated too much, wtf>> <<@Rmorty50 says : I work in a bakery and the parents always ask their kids what they want and I mean ages of 1-5 and ofc the kid will always go to the cake section and choose one.>> <<@ryaneliasbaker says : Yeah, I do feel like there’s a happy medium to be found here… maybe by helping your children decide what to eat rather than giving them or yourself total power over it. I don’t think it’s as crucial a teaching moment or parenting element as this speaker implies.>> <<@MsItalia007 says : I agree with her, but I don't think a white head master could get away with this. He'd be called racist. I do disagree with her vegetarian only decision.>> <<@AnastasiaHenley-oc5xs says : I agree. This makes me crazy when I watch these young weak parents negotiating with their kids, asking their permission. My parents never asked our permission to buy anything or cook anything. Mom made dinner and the whole family ate together and were damn greatful for our meal. Thanks mom 💗 dad. You made me strong and humble.>> <<@sp3g56 says : I like my kids as human beings. I don’t want them to feel like their opinion never matters. I’m not raising them to be doormats like I was.>> <<@ungratefulabour says : I agree with you>> <<@ooolll8902 says : If your family has good amount of resouces, give your children more choices as long as they learn to be responsible and accept consequences for their choices. If your family is tight on money or time, then your kids have to learn to suck it up more often. Whatever works for your family. As long as parents are loving and supportive, kids will be fine.>> <<@theClawfather says : Freedom in all the wrong places as well as tyranny in all the wrong places>> <<@sarah-kk4om says : JP has some very jazzy jackets!>> <<@kiki1326 says : GOOD PARENTING>> <<@skriabinfly says : I thought that was Tracee Ellis Ross>> <<@jaksls says : Really think she is totally going to one side of the spectrum without good reason, other than to make things easier for the parent. It is the easiest thing in the world to just tell children "this is the way it is and you get no choice". Surely there is a middle ground. When you are an adult you do have some degree of choice, although you dont always get what you want. You dont have to be a dictator for your children to be well behaved and turn into good people.>> <<@Meteor_pending says : YES. Children only have the choices you give them.>> <<@benji-pj4dp says : If you tried to make me eat onions i would kick off. We are allowed not to like certain foods.>> <<@lofasz3328 says : I'm sure she's a pleasure to have as a mother lmao>> <<@carathorsven3326 says : Oh yeah let's tell the children if you don't like it suck it up and then let's wonder why we have a society of people who put up with shitty conditions and feel disempiwered to change them.>> <<@carathorsven3326 says : What a terrible approach. Children deserve respect and consideration. They don't need to be catered to at every whim but there is literally nothing wrong with asking your child what they like. My child requests food like dried salmon and seaweed at the grocery store and I'm damn well okay with that 😂 We need to not swing the pendulum. Don't be a dictator, but also don't put them on a pedestal. Just have a relationship.>> <<@SYA357 says : You can still give them relative choice at home. You can pick 1 thing that you like, 1 that your spouse likes, and the kid can pick a third. Why should childhood necessarily mean not having a choice and having to suck it up? Have you ever thought about how many food intolerances get missed that way? How many unnecessary permanent dislikes against certain foods are fostered this way? At least don't force them to eat it, please.>> <<@j.a.0088 says : If you ask your child what would you like to eat it will always be pizza , chips 🍟 and all the rest of junk food . Never broccoli 🥦 or spinach . So you have to decide , and raise children to eat healthy it will stay with them all their life .>> <<@ragib19jro30 says : She has trauma dude>> <<@chris-w3j7k says : That’s what it is to be an adult too 😂>> <<@Seraphielium says : Treat others how you wish to be treated, this is unsafe and absurd to treat your child like this, you’re teaching them to blindly follow, don’t ask questions and just do it, no arguments or discussions and decisions. Instead teach them to think critically and for themselves>> <<@markushahn9123 says : Isn’t there something between this extremes. Ask Children about everything decision is very dumb. On the other side my son never refused to eat what I cooked, because of clever not harsh education. This mother is very backwards>> <<@brendonschaper5496 says : Testify sister!>> <<@Lionhearted626 says : Honestly isn’t that what you’re supposed to do for your kid as a kindness? They have the rest of their lives to think and make decisions. Right now they don’t have to. I can decide for them. They don’t even know what they’re looking at on the shelf anyway.>> <<@susanwright4414 says : Buy everything you want them to eat, and let them choose some things too. I treat people ( including my daughter) how I'd like to be treated...😅>> <<@omn5142 says : Molding the future generations to be mindlesss robots, perfect for the communist regime>> <<@dianelogan8822 says : People need to realize that their childhood experiences have nothing to do with childrens experiences today. How are kids supposed to learn anything on their own if parents are dictating everything? What about experiences and maybe learning something from your child?>> <<@swurvling says : 100%>> <<@DD_Dux says : I think it’s important to do both ur kid is not the center of attention but involving them is great like what whould u like to eat at lunch maybe we can get it or what kind of snaks do u want I find ppl who don’t let there children participate always ask why there teenagers aren’t involved>> <<@jchomedog2887 says : Food is a privilege. People should be grateful to eat anything that is in front of them. Unless they’re allergic. This is me speaking from having grown up from poverty in a third world orphanage and having served in the military. Be grateful to eat food.>> <<@deborahs4970 says : True West Indian upbringing. We had no choice. You ate what ever your mother cooked.>> <<@richellmcknight446 says : 😂😂😂❤❤❤That's how it was in our house when I grew up, and I turned out just fine!❤>> <<@Ruminatinghafez says : Allergies aside, Im on-board>> <<@RedWolf17 says : Omg! I was just talking about this with a friend recently. 100% on point!🐾>>