<<@karolyneroberts
says :
Thanks for watching! For those concerned about the ratio of Men to Women - Read This: ๐I understand your concern and I believe it comes from a pure place, that is why I will take the time to address this question once and for all so you understand where we are coming from. ๐ 1. The show concept is "Meant to Be Singles Retreat." The priority first and foremost is to create a retreat where singles can come together and fellowship with like-minded believers. Finding a potential match is a BONUS. But Godly friendships/ community are also important because oftentimes in relationships we lack accountability and community support. In this episode, yes, there are less guys than women, so it's natural to 'assume' the men have an advantage of "picking" (we'll address that next)... but consider this, the women have the advantage in finding and making new friends, which they did. ๐ ๐2. We are very intentional about everything we do, and also very prayerful. There is never an instance where the men "pick" a woman. There is only mutual matching and both the men AND women are given the power to choose and make a decision. This is NOT like other shows. I can't give it away, but you just have to watch to find out๐. ๐3. No one as "blindsided." We had a personal zoom meeting with everyone before coming on the show. They were aware of the ratio and as grown adults, they all still decided to participate. I believe they were willing to travel from their different locations to take part in this because they saw the value in the show "outside" of just finding a match. In this first episode, everyone answers the question of "what are you looking to gain out of this experiences." I encourage to watch back and carefully listen to everyone's response. ๐4. We prioritize QUALITY over quantity. I am not here to waste anyone's time, and I will not put someone on the show just because they are a certain gender. If you don't truly love Jesus and have a relationship with him, this is not the show for you and that's ok. There are many other dating shows with A LOT of men to choose from. You can go on there if you want more options. This show is more so about the QUALITY of the experience and the PURPOSE behind it. ๐5. Proof of concept. That was one of our goals for Season 1. We thank the brave men and women who decided to join the first season of Meant to Be Singles retreat. They believed in our vision and were excited about participating. Men are often hesitant to get on dating shows especially because of the embarrassment these days. We are hoping with this proof of concept, people realize that this is a safe and supportive environment where they can come to find love. I believe and hope more quality men will be willing to apply after this. ๐6. Be the CHANGE you want to SEE. ๐ I love that you are concerned. That means that a lot of you can be our change ambassadors and help us move the vision of the show further! Be the change that you want to see in the world of dating. If you want to see more godly men, I encourage you to get outside your comfort zone and go to your family, friends group, church, etc. Tell the single men (and women) you know to apply: karolyne.com/casting -- we are all doing what we can over here, but this is a way you can help! Thanks! ๐ 7. COMPATIBILITY is KEY. The singles at the retreat are all compatible, which increases the likelihood of a match. We don't blindly put a group of singles on the show, "hoping" there's a match. We truly LISTEN to what the singles want and desire out of a relationship and future spouse, even down to the smallest details. They match perfectly on paper, but what happens when they meet, is up to them and up to God, it's out of our hands from there. I encourage you to keep following along their journey and stay hopeful. Join us again on Thursday for another episode of Meant to Be! ๐
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<<@gloa2772
says :
It would be nicer if the women had different choices as well.
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<<@Helovesyou2
says :
Ok!!! No discrimination moms on the show! โค
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<<@BecomingKamisha
says :
I love this show! My sis/friend Shakiya is such a classy, godly, beautiful woman! โจโจโจ
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<<@AllThingsSoul
says :
Please, kindly turn the brightness (ISO) down on your camera. Everyone is looking blown out so they are very hard to see clearly. Thank you. ๐
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<<@TheKingdom4Truth
says :
I havent even finished but I love that its 3 women to one man. Because its he who finds a wife! Amen! This is needed. The internet is so saturated with ungodly shows. I love this. I wish i had the boldness to apply lol.
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<<@lt3096
says :
I want to come on!
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<<@SasheenaB
says :
Beautiful. Definitely needed a show like this. I love that you pray for the individuals and put so much thought into selecting the participants.
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<<@Lodeenie
says :
This is beyond refreshing!!! Thank you so much for bringing this to us.
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<<@ladytamara1503
says :
Dear men, we love guys but yโall need to step it up. Men are the leaders, itโs wrong to have more women in Godโs presence than men. Please, God made the man first and he spent time with God first even before the woman was ever created.
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<<@shelleygreyrealtor
says :
Love thisโคI am hoping you all have much success and that your contestants have success in live and family.
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<<@gc2137
says :
Wonderful concept! Looks like there are only 2 men?
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<<@GACWORLD
says :
Why just two brothers?
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<<@MaleekaCrispina
says :
MEANT TO BE SINGLES RETREAT HAS ARRIVED!! LET'S GGOOOOOO!!!!๐๐๐ฅฐ๐
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<<@saviorfleming9081
says :
Exactly, I look forward to watching it,
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<<@TheLittlePrayerCafe
says :
I want the whole and her husband to know that this is a beautiful show. Thank you for introducing black women in a positive light showing that we are all beautiful. Their hairstyles and skin tone, from light skin to dark skin, we needed a show like this to show that we are beautiful and we are positive, this is Christianity. This is femininity so many shows show us in a negative spotlight with us fighting and drinking. Thank you both for introducing the show because the world needs to see the show and Iโm going to share it with all of my sisters of color including my daughter. It shouldโve been more men to choose from besides two . The women ratio arenโt adding up. ๐
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<<@kathrinajohnson4206
says :
It's ok. You can call it a dating show.
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<<@randomstuff2650
says :
The woman host looks beautiful but why put all that makeup? It takes away from her natural beauty
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<<@margaretngigi1319
says :
I like this, finally we christian single can enjoy .
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<<@linp5045
says :
Nice to see a Christian dating show. Hopefully more men are added.
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<<@TheCoolkid789
says :
I honestly really respect this approach and think that what you are all are doing is great! At first after showcasing the case and realizing that there were only two after seeing quite a few women, I was a bit worried. However, watching you and your husband break down the compatibility between each guy and their three potential suitors was incredible! I could see how much passion, love and care, prayer, and thought went into each person that was brought out for the singles retreat and the potential for friendship and a potential match! I also loved getting to pray with you guys for the singles that are in attendance. I just love the way the show is setup and hearing everyone's thoughts in perspectives and what they are hoping to gain from this experience! God's love and the love of His people are present, and this is such a blessing to be showcased to the world! It provides hope in world where the dating scene seems to be all over the place and embodies that love isn't always about romantic but can also be platonic too ๐๐ค I'm hooked to this show and excited for the future episodes! The best is yet to come for you guys! Proud of you all and God bless โค๏ธ
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<<@gregoryAsmith22
says :
The notion of a flawless marriage or relationship is a myth. There's no set formula for success; what works for one couple may not work for another. Yet, I've discovered that there's always a way forward, even in the most challenging times. Five years ago, my wife and I encountered significant hurdles in our marriage that nearly led to divorce. Despite the adversity, we managed to weather the storm and emerge from it with our bond renewed and revitalised
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<<@joyfulpraisefitness
says :
This was so refreshing!! I love watching dating shows and canโt wait for episode 2!
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<<@username25256
says :
This can be tricky because if the guy or girl does not like or is not attracted to the guys that are there, then they are stuck at the retreat lol
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<<@Prolific_son
says :
I love this show. Where are the other episodes? Godly content is always the best.
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<<@Christystcyrallen
says :
Iโm from Winter Haven, shout-out to Jade- Lakeland!!!
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<<@sinazomcinga7154
says :
Wow I canโt wait to watch this โฆ gonna get home in an hour๐ฅณ๐ฅณ๐ฅณ๐โค๏ธ๐๐๐๐
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<<@Deee_TV
says :
Lovely watching so far... Pretty sure it cost quite abit to put together.. well done. An idea... Maybe add age bracket classifications to the show 20s edition, 30s editon, 40s edition and so on.
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<<@yyung_mac_
says :
LaDoris is my bae they canโt have her
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<<@iamlaporsha
says :
I agree with another comment about starting an individual page for Meant to Be!
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<<@iamlaporsha
says :
Iโm still listening to the intro and Dupree and Ladoris sounds good in the same sentence. Letโs see how this works out. Well done!
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<<@nettetisha6354
says :
Nice
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<<@ThePropheticDreamer
says :
Yesss Kindom Takeover ๐๐๐๐โค
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<<@Sparklescooby93
says :
I really like this! This earned a sub!
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<<@vITALEmpress
says :
Oooh this is soo good!! Watching from the U.K!! We need this here too!! Can we get a mirror version here please!! 16K views in 1 day of publishing๐ฎ Amazing work ๐๐พ๐๐พ
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<<@ericalovesvogue
says :
This is beautiful. Finally a dating show for Christians.
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<<@gracewamaitha130
says :
This a must watch โฆ. Christinaโs want such more of this kind of shows
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<<@Gardenofserenity_
says :
I love this!!๐๐
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<<@La-bq6jj
says :
I'm so excited for this show and really hope it does well on YouTube! Itโs so refreshing to see a clean dating show! I hope you keep improving the show through constructive criticism and donโt give up! Thank you for starting this!
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<<@lovehappens2507
says :
I'm so here for it as a Christian single๐ค๐ฅฐ
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<<@Norlis777
says :
Just wondering- is this inclusive to your race only? Not asking for me but I have a friend, heโs Hispanic ๐
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<<@nakeisharodgers1167
says :
What a beautiful and refreshing take on dating! Thank you both for letting God guide you to do this!
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<<@ItsNaomi
says :
YouTube needs to have a repost feature๐
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<<@luvlay1
says :
I need more of this show bruh ๐ญ๐ญ๐๐ฅน
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<<@loveloveherrera5
says :
Is this dating show for all race .? Or just for blacks ?
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<<@simply_fw
says :
Aww I love to see Rhonda! I attended the same church as her during my college years and sheโs so sweet
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<<@cassandrag9866
says :
Love this concept. You both are amazing.
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<<@JellyV93
says :
Love this!!!
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<<@JtinaM26
says :
I'm immediately triggered by 3 to 1 matching. The man has his choice between 3 women, while 3 men "compete" for the affection of 1 man.
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<<@jt-For_me
says :
I really appreciate the concept of this show. I think it would be helpful if you also posted the candidates social media handles in case theres some one out there watching that would like to know more
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