Thanks for watching! For those concerned about the ratio of Men to Women - Read This:
📌I understand your concern and I believe it comes from a pure place, that is why I will take the time to address this question once and for all so you understand where we are coming from.
📌 1. The show concept is "Meant to Be Singles Retreat." The priority first and foremost is to create a retreat where singles can come together and fellowship with like-minded believers. Finding a potential match is a BONUS. But Godly friendships/ community are also important because oftentimes in relationships we lack accountability and community support. In this episode, yes, there are less guys than women, so it's natural to 'assume' the men have an advantage of "picking" (we'll address that next)... but consider this, the women have the advantage in finding and making new friends, which they did. 😊
📌2. We are very intentional about everything we do, and also very prayerful. There is never an instance where the men "pick" a woman. There is only mutual matching and both the men AND women are given the power to choose and make a decision. This is NOT like other shows. I can't give it away, but you just have to watch to find out🙂.
📌3. No one as "blindsided." We had a personal zoom meeting with everyone before coming on the show. They were aware of the ratio and as grown adults, they all still decided to participate. I believe they were willing to travel from their different locations to take part in this because they saw the value in the show "outside" of just finding a match. In this first episode, everyone answers the question of "what are you looking to gain out of this experiences." I encourage to watch back and carefully listen to everyone's response.
📌4. We prioritize QUALITY over quantity. I am not here to waste anyone's time, and I will not put someone on the show just because they are a certain gender. If you don't truly love Jesus and have a relationship with him, this is not the show for you and that's ok. There are many other dating shows with A LOT of men to choose from. You can go on there if you want more options. This show is more so about the QUALITY of the experience and the PURPOSE behind it.
📌5. Proof of concept. That was one of our goals for Season 1. We thank the brave men and women who decided to join the first season of Meant to Be Singles retreat. They believed in our vision and were excited about participating. Men are often hesitant to get on dating shows especially because of the embarrassment these days. We are hoping with this proof of concept, people realize that this is a safe and supportive environment where they can come to find love. I believe and hope more quality men will be willing to apply after this.
📌6. Be the CHANGE you want to SEE. 🙂 I love that you are concerned. That means that a lot of you can be our change ambassadors and help us move the vision of the show further! Be the change that you want to see in the world of dating. If you want to see more godly men, I encourage you to get outside your comfort zone and go to your family, friends group, church, etc. Tell the single men (and women) you know to apply: karolyne.com/casting -- we are all doing what we can over here, but this is a way you can help! Thanks!
📌 7. COMPATIBILITY is KEY. The singles at the retreat are all compatible, which increases the likelihood of a match. We don't blindly put a group of singles on the show, "hoping" there's a match. We truly LISTEN to what the singles want and desire out of a relationship and future spouse, even down to the smallest details. They match perfectly on paper, but what happens when they meet, is up to them and up to God, it's out of our hands from there.
I encourage you to keep following along their journey and stay hopeful. Join us again on Thursday for another episode of Meant to Be! 😉
@calebwilson7472 Says:
I am interested in one of the women
@calebwilson7472 Says:
When is the next show?
@luisarroyo8111 Says:
I'm a happily married man who values faith in Jesus Christ (above any religion, cult or order), family, children and ethical business. The difference is choice vs indoctrination.
I would be interested in understanding how my daughters can build better choices for themselves in their future relationships.
@Mindsetolympics Says:
I remember when the form was posted for this show. This feels like matchmaking foreeal.
All the best to the contestants!❤❤❤
@jordaynahholm7962 Says:
Just watched the first episode. So far loving it, but wish there was more men.
@SylviaOjode Says:
Happy & gkad to find this channel❤
@SylviaOjode Says:
🎉🎉3
@VictoriaAnikky Says:
Great job 👍
@KydSyster20 Says:
Love the premise of this especially as a Christian….but only two men?!?…..That puts an unspoken air if competition vs choosing a potential match for each woman….this is a big short fall of this show…sorry 🙏🏾
@memoryphiri790 Says:
Makes no sense having 2 men only doesn't give any of them more options.. Have equal number or men and women next time
@vivianwebber2001 Says:
🎉this is awesome, I may need to try out.❤
@ShaunteReneeDouthitt Says:
How am I just now seeing this.
@SylviaWilliams1028 Says:
Wait, there’s only 2 men? lol
@paulettepoole5476 Says:
I’m not sure why there are 2 men to 4 ladies. The women really didn’t really get much of a choice. Starting off unbalanced to me. I think the intentions are great. Give the women more selections please.
@henricav4784 Says:
It is probably my one hundredth time checking for a new episode 😬😂 it's been more than a week 💔 🙏🏼
@SuzisFitness Says:
and atleast no more love isaland which i stoppedwatching yeara ago
@SuzisFitness Says:
i try to give this a chance as christian it is still a dating show
@yolandap6521 Says:
Than u for this. Finally something decent to watch n faith based.
@yolandap6521 Says:
I'm sorry brother, u don't put go at 3rd place but number 1.
@saraw7050 Says:
Wow this was nice and encouraging. I pray that the singles on the retreat are encouraged and that their faith and hope in God is increased as a result of this experience! I, also, pray for this pure and godly concept for a dating show will flourish impacting and blessing many! Thank you to the Roberts for the hearts to take on this mission. I'm excited to see the next episodes.
@daughteroftheking01 Says:
This might be my new fav show lol. LOVEE that they considered their spiritual gifts and instagram posts when matching couples.
@daughteroftheking01 Says:
Omg and this is a Christian† show?!!! Yesss
@martinsudi2814 Says:
I love this concept. This is kind of lovely.
@martinsudi2814 Says:
Nice one...
@CelideeBudoromyi Says:
9 I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another woman commits adultery.”Matthew 19
10 The disciples said to
@carol7roberts Says:
Love this show. So Christian, so classy, and so true!! This is so refreshing! 😊🙏🏾✝️
@gloa2772 Says:
It would be nicer if the women had different choices as well.
@Helovesyou2 Says:
Ok!!! No discrimination moms on the show! ❤
@BecomingKamisha Says:
I love this show! My sis/friend Shakiya is such a classy, godly, beautiful woman! ✨✨✨
@AllThingsSoul Says:
Please, kindly turn the brightness (ISO) down on your camera. Everyone is looking blown out so they are very hard to see clearly. Thank you. 🙂
@TheKingdom4Truth Says:
I havent even finished but I love that its 3 women to one man. Because its he who finds a wife! Amen! This is needed. The internet is so saturated with ungodly shows. I love this. I wish i had the boldness to apply lol.
@lt3096 Says:
I want to come on!
@SasheenaSandeena Says:
Beautiful. Definitely needed a show like this. I love that you pray for the individuals and put so much thought into selecting the participants.
@Lodeenie Says:
This is beyond refreshing!!! Thank you so much for bringing this to us.
@loveyourminutes Says:
Love this❤I am hoping you all have much success and that your contestants have success in live and family.
@gc2137 Says:
Wonderful concept! Looks like there are only 2 men?
@GACWORLD Says:
Why just two brothers?
@MaleekaCrispina Says:
MEANT TO BE SINGLES RETREAT HAS ARRIVED!! LET'S GGOOOOOO!!!!😆🙌🥰🎉
@saviorfleming9081 Says:
Exactly, I look forward to watching it,
@VanillaBeanFrappuchino Says:
I want the whole and her husband to know that this is a beautiful show. Thank you for introducing black women in a positive light showing that we are all beautiful. Their hairstyles and skin tone, from light skin to dark skin, we needed a show like this to show that we are beautiful and we are positive, this is Christianity. This is femininity so many shows show us in a negative spotlight with us fighting and drinking. Thank you both for introducing the show because the world needs to see the show and I’m going to share it with all of my sisters of color including my daughter.
It should’ve been more men to choose from besides two . The women ratio aren’t adding up. 😔
@kathrinajohnson4206 Says:
It's ok. You can call it a dating show.
@randomstuff2650 Says:
The woman host looks beautiful but why put all that makeup? It takes away from her natural beauty
@margaretngigi1319 Says:
I like this, finally we christian single can enjoy .
@linp5045 Says:
Nice to see a Christian dating show. Hopefully more men are added.
@TheCoolkid789 Says:
I honestly really respect this approach and think that what you are all are doing is great! At first after showcasing the case and realizing that there were only two after seeing quite a few women, I was a bit worried. However, watching you and your husband break down the compatibility between each guy and their three potential suitors was incredible! I could see how much passion, love and care, prayer, and thought went into each person that was brought out for the singles retreat and the potential for friendship and a potential match! I also loved getting to pray with you guys for the singles that are in attendance. I just love the way the show is setup and hearing everyone's thoughts in perspectives and what they are hoping to gain from this experience! God's love and the love of His people are present, and this is such a blessing to be showcased to the world! It provides hope in world where the dating scene seems to be all over the place and embodies that love isn't always about romantic but can also be platonic too 💜🤍
I'm hooked to this show and excited for the future episodes! The best is yet to come for you guys! Proud of you all and God bless ❤️
@joyfulpraisefitness Says:
This was so refreshing!! I love watching dating shows and can’t wait for episode 2!
@username25256 Says:
This can be tricky because if the guy or girl does not like or is not attracted to the guys that are there, then they are stuck at the retreat lol
@Prolific_son Says:
I love this show. Where are the other episodes? Godly content is always the best.
@iamchristystcyr Says:
I’m from Winter Haven, shout-out to Jade- Lakeland!!!
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