What's so wrong with having sex before marriage? It's the cultural norm, right? In this video, Frank addresses that question from a totally different perspective. Check it out!
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@MelissaM.R Says:
I recently decided that I did not want to have sex with my partner often. We see each other once a week. I brought it up to him and I told him that I wanted to stop having sexual often. I asked him that 4x a week would be too much sex for me. And he said that he had a high-sex drive. He then came to the conclusion that we shouldn’t have sex until the end of February. He didn’t seem sincere about it. I brought it up to let him know how I was feeling. Sex once a week is wrong if we aren’t married. The one thing I am having the most doubt in is his honesty. He’s watched pxrn before behind my back and that’s making me doubt a lot. I don’t know if to continue having sex once a week which was okay with me. Or wait until the end of February. I don’t know what to do… My boyfriend is also an atheist so he took it a different way…
@JimKaighn Says:
Well, I guess I am guilty of having sex more than once before eventually getting married! That does not make me an evil person! I am a true believer of God. I was a much younger guy back then when my Christianity unfortunately was not in my thought process. Human beings are not in a position to judge one another for our past indiscretions! Only the Lord has the power & authority to do so! If you leave your past transgressions to God & ask for forgiveness through him, he is a compassionate God who will forgive. We all sin, one way or another. The key is to genuinely show repentance & attempt to live a decent & loving existence!
To answer the question plainly. Yes, you can go to hell for premarital sex(fornication) 1 Corinthians 6:9-10, Galatians 5:19-21.
And to further drive the point home: Revelation 21:6-8
@brentschmoeckel1420 Says:
Anyone with unrepented sin is in trouble so repent and receive Jesus
@MeiMoneng Says:
Two couples who left are the one who will continue to cohabitate
@RobertWilliams-mb9jb Says:
@@catholictruth102 who are you to judge?
@undergroundheatcypher1091 Says:
I'm going through this situation right now i been dating this girl for about 6 and a half months we had sex like 6 or 7 times and everytime we did it she felt convicted so she said she doesn't want to have sex anymore until marriage it's very hard we hug and kiss and touch each other but no sex in over a month now keep us in prayer!!
@BenKorman-i4k Says:
Does Continuing In Sexual or any Sin Really Lead To Hell? because the one sin send us to hell is rejecting God and Jesus and blasphemy
@genewhiteman1811 Says:
As long as you love God and you spend time with God and build a relationship with him you have nothing to worry about whether you send sexually or not and sex is not a sin God said be fruitful and multiply being fruitful and multiplying means having sex and producing children
@genewhiteman1811 Says:
If you want to know the truth what the Bible says and what you can go to hell for read the Bible you will find that once you accept Jesus in your heart you can't go to hell for any sin that you commit because Jesus Took the punishment for your sins already for you for you Jesus Took the punishment for you already
@genewhiteman1811 Says:
And if you go to hell for any sin that you have committed after you ask God to forgive you then your God is a liar hanging on the cross Allpoint in Jesus dying on the cross what's to take your sins unto himself and he took the punishment and died the second death for you when he went to hell for 3 days
@genewhiteman1811 Says:
If you go to hell for any of your sins that would make Jesus out to be a liar and a hypocrite
@genewhiteman1811 Says:
There is no consequences for your sins if you are saved and if you ask God to forgive you you cannot go to hell for anything that you've done because Jesus already went to hell for you that is why there consequence for your sin Jesus was punished for your sins he took the consequences of your sins consequences of your sins you cannot be put in hell for anything that you commit if you have been forgiven it's like you never did it and there is no consequence because Jesus Took the consequence for you already so you will not be punished for any sense that you commit as a Christian and that is a fact because that is what the Bible says Bible says
@genewhiteman1811 Says:
How can you say blasphemy of the holy spirit is unforgivable when every person if they sin has already done that and anyways Jesus said he forgives you for all your sins he took all sin that includes blasphemy of the Holy Spirit otherwise you can't say he died for all your sins and forgives you for all your sins so what are you saying Jesus is a liar
@genewhiteman1811 Says:
You can be forgiven for blasphemy of the holy spirit because that is the first thing God forgave me for why is this guy lying
@GeraldJacobsYoutube Says:
Blasphemy of the Holy Spirit is not rejecting Christ! 🤦🏻
@emilywalton2339 Says:
If you die in your sin yes you’ll go to hell. We don’t know when we will be called home. Why play with fire are y’all trying to get burn.
@real8342 Says:
Was Abraham,Jacob,David,Solomon in sin?they all had multiple women!!
@Stiffytheenlightened Says:
You won't go to hell whatever you do. It doesn't exist.
@TheTrueSonOfFire Says:
We are incapable of committing blasphemy against the Holy Spirit. That was only applicable to those who saw Christ perform miracles and attributed His power to the work of the Wicked One. Y'all remember our Savior ascended back to Heaven right?
@patrickcannell2258 Says:
But don't use God mercy to sin. Sex outside marriage is sin. Hebrews 13v4 Marriage is honorable in all and the bed undefiled for God will judge adulterers and whoremongers.
@Deathhellandthegrave Says:
There are no consequences for having sex outside of marriage. In fact, everyone should have sex outside of filthy marriage. Marriage is a lie; monogamy is a myth. Have sex with as many prostitutes that you can. Give yourself over to lust and come to reject christ.
@Grokford Says:
"If you love me then you'll keep my commandments" is a really good line that completely brushes ove the fact that neither God nor the Bible ever forbid pre-marital sex.
This man is as slimy as they come.
@warren6790 Says:
sex before marriage is not a sin between two single adults of the opposite sex that's not rape or incest or whoredom, it doesn't get any plainer than that according to the bible, or you can do what the unwise do, let sex be the reason you get married, which I can assure you, for anyone that can't have sex before marriage, that is what their doing, just to justify it, not only that, 99 percent of most men and women ( maybe more ) have sex with that person they intend on marrying before they do get married, the liars and hypocrites excluded, the other small percentage that don't, do so, because it's what they believe from what they been taught, don't believe it? ask your own parents, you need to know this because it's true, the feelings you feel towards that person you fall in love with, DON'T LAST, your not going to be in your right mind because your being driven by sexual desire, it's why so many after getting married say, they just aren't the person they married when they met and got married, TOO SOON, now comes the problem, they vowed to stay with that person till death do they part not realizing that making a vow to God and not doing it, God will call it SIN in you, it's a TRAP, only a very cunning one that deceives the simple minded, also people using scriptures that were laws pertaining to children making them pertain to adults is another reason your going to get deceived, know the difference between a man and a woman that's not a virgin or a maid or maiden still living under their fathers care, then read Lev. 15:16-24, this is dealing with adults, not children, and it's ANY man, not her husband as if it was ANY man they both would have been stoned, masturbation is also dealt with in here but the dreamers think it has to do with a dream, on that issue, there's a right way and a wrong way, what is more important is these people that don't recognize the BOTH that have wives scripture, that includes the married and the unmarried and neither of them was forbidden by Paul of having sex, but they see it but they don't recognize it for what it is, here's a little help, it's what this world does, they marry and are given in marriage, given in marriage is easy, ask yourself what this word means in this sentence, Go unto thy brother's wife and MARRY her and raise up seed in your brothers name, DO WHAT TO HER?, let them MARRY, unto the MARRIED I command yet not I but the LORD, the only help your going to get here is in what Jesus taught where He says, what GOD has joined together, let no man separate, He MEANS GOD, not His representative, wait, another clue, I can assure you a CHILD is involved, two shall become one flesh, or better, him and her will make one flesh, or even better, two bodies of flesh will make one body of flesh, it's a child, what did the disciple say about this, If that's the case with man, it's better not to marry, the reply, not all can accept it but he that can, do so, become a eunuch, what that means is not what you think, a eunuch can have sex, he just can't reproduce, that's probably over most people's head but to a man that isn't sure if he wants to get MARRIED will jump off like Onan, like men of that day didn't know what to do to prevent a pregnancy, common knowledge for most, birth control for others, irregardless, don't make a baby until you know for sure the person you want to get married to is right and it ain't going to be at a time when the man is hungry or the woman, they will do anything to get their stomachs full, make him feel like a king, her like a queen, buy candy, flowers, whatever it takes, visa versa with the woman too, or WAIT, find out later what deceived you, then see how hard it is to get out of it if that person don't commit adultery or some other sexual sin forbidden in the law of Moses, it can even get worse, if a child is born and you both love the child but hate each other, God forbid but it happens, but it's NEVER going to happen when the love is strong, only when it grows cold and it WILL and God will hold you responsible for what you created that HE gave life to, property and assets are easy to divide, children, not so easy, especially if both parents love the child, get the point?
@angloaust1575 Says:
Sex isn't essential
Mind over matter
Enables self control
Abstinence celibacy
Can be achieved with
Discipline obviously only
For those who can overcome
The passions
God has provided marriage to
Release tensions and have children for those who cant
Endure being alone!
Unfortunately divorce desertion and death do occur!
@ThisUserDoesNotExist69 Says:
Sir Pentious
@paradoxine6287 Says:
I think thats why Sir Pentious is in hell right now
@DerekPK Says:
I believe that you shouldn’t leave your wife.
If you have sex with woman, then she is your wife, you shouldn’t leave a woman you had sex with since she now pregnant and get babies and is your wife.
@jeffkelleher Says:
Having committed blasphemy of the holy spirit hundreds of times, I am beyond God's forgiveness, so I am going to nail every woman I can, and God can screw himself.
@LadyMareshah-cr5ig Says:
Yes, you will go to hell if you continue to have sex without repentance, which is a change of heart and mind towards premarital sex to not have sex with someone who is not your spouse due to a godly conviction.
GOD will forgive, but one must feel how HE feels about pre-marital sex, which is change of heart during repentance. Seek GOD on how HE feels one should think, view, and treat the opposite sex and someone who you would consider your future spouse. Abstain from being alone with the opposite sex, abstain from lusting/coveting after the opposite sex, and seek GOD about your spouse instead of dating.
Yes, sex before marriage is a sin or poor judgment. Read Genesis 34 to know why it is a sin. It dishonors the parents/guardian and the family. Sex before marriage is a form of theft, which is stealing a sexual experience with someone who is not your spouse, and rape is a form of theft. Nowadays, rape is considered sex with someone without their consent. However, rape in Genesis 34 is to treat someone like a whore, who is not a whore, and to have sex with the person without a marital commitment, without parental consent, without the consent of the family, and can include having sex before marriage, which Hamor did to with Dinah. In Genesis 34, Hamor was talking kindly to Dinah who was not his spouse. Dinah's brothers and dad were not pleased with what Hamor treating Dinah like a whore and having sex with her before marriage/a marital commitment. Rape is a word used in the Old Testament word while fornication is a word of the New Testament. A lot of what these men are doing to women before marriage is considered rape and fornication; treating the woman like a whore, who is not a whore, and having sex with them before a formal marital commitment, such as a wedding, which includes the parents and family. One is not walking in love towards GOD, their body, the person, the parent(s), guardian, or family when you have sex with someone who is not your spouse. Hamor died because of his sin of having sex before marriage. Having sex with someone who is not your spouse is a sin just like it's a sin to have sex with a married person, which is punishable by death in some countries. The wages of sin is death! It is the mercies of GOD why many are still alive after having sex with someone who is not their spouse.
Sex before marriage sends a message of unfaithfulness to the family and the person just as when a married person has sex out of wedlock sends a message of unfaithfulness. You are a person of your word and are honorable when you do everything you're suppose to do to show that you will be faithful by talking to the parent/guardian, talking to the family, put money aside to get married, even if it's at the city court, and doing whatever it takes to do the marriage ceremony before having sex with the individual. Sex before marriage is selfish and sex with someone other than your spouse is selfishness. Sex after the wedding ceremony shows you're willing to be selfless in order to do things right. Like a husbandman with a vineyard, do all the right steps to acquire the vineyard; hence, the term "husband" in husbandman. Don't start messing with someone's soil and planting seeds without some formal agreement with the caretaker/property owner/parent(s). Also, once you have acquired the vineyard with honor, you tend to it, or the person, with love and faithfulness. You don't abandon the vineyard because the grass is greener on the other side like an adulterer having sex with someone who is not their spouse. Stick with your vineyard/wife until she dies or the marital contract is annulled by death. Be faithful, selflessly loving and honorable when it comes to marriage and sex. No one needs sex or any form of marital intimacy with someone who is not their spouse. If you say you do need sex before marriage, or with someone who is not your spouse, you are a liar. Once you have GOD's perspective on marriage and sex, you will notice that the opposite sex is made to be treated in a precious and honorable way.
Please read: Matthew 19:1-9, Leviticus 15:18-33, Romans 12:1, 1 Thessalonians 4, Deuteronomy 24:5, Leviticus 18:22, Exodus 22:16, 1 Corinthians 7, Leviticus 20, Leviticus 18, Leviticus 19:29, Hebrews 13:4, Genesis 2:18-25, Genesis 24, and Romans 7:1-4.
The problem of the oversexed culture is rooted in a culture of darkness concerning the purpose of marriage, love, the body, and the purpose of sex. The oversexed culture has taken sex out of its GOD-designed context and have used dating as a means to get sex from women. Women are lying about wanting to have casual sex and emotionally detached sex. No woman feels comfortable during sex or wants to be treated as an object for sexual pleasure. Men enjoy sex more than women. Some men just want sex with a virgin to mess with their mental health, to be remembered and to create an attachment. Some men are honest about sex and are not excited about sex. How comfortable is a woman during sex when she is being stuffed like a turkey with someone else's body part repeatedly? No one likes the feeling of being too full or constipated! Be real society! Pornography brainwashes these young people of today about sex and pornography is a lie. Women are more willing to only have sex within a marriage. Women only feel emotionally safe having sex and intimacy within a marriage and some do it within marriage in order to have a child.
@LALady1 Says:
lol 😂
@truegamer2819 Says:
this is the most accurate answer from the bible, its true you cant just sin and say yea all i can do is ask for forgiveness..its doesnt work like that
@anthonyvillalba824 Says:
What if your middle aged, not a virgin and have sex before marriage. Because, you know, the clock is ticking and our bodies change and some my age have been dying. I understand its a moral sin, but it almost seems tyats more for the younger generation to abstain.
@gamefan8552 Says:
I agree with Frank on this, if you keep on sinning thinking "God has to forgive me", you clearly feel no remorse for you sins and if death suddenly came who can guarantee you will have time to repent ? Let's not play with fire and always live as if today was our last day on Earth, then you will have peace and rest easy only with a clear conscience free from mortal sin. Also anyone who thinks they can outsmart God, is kidding themselves, we might outsmart people for sometime , however even then no one can hope to keep doing that forever and never get caught.
@maninfurnace2560 Says:
To anyone who thinks of themselves as 'Holy', I hope you know that we are not at all. Our most righteous acts are still as dirty as filthy rags. Hence, certainly, we are not holy because we did certain things "right" (which can be highly subjective as well anyways). We are only made holy because of Christ.
Pre-marital sex or being celibate until marriage are both parts of human decisions and cultures, as well as the background and context of the person's life journey in itself. However, let this not be a stumbling stone and cause us to judge and 'cast the first stone' to one another. 🙏
@companyboss5447 Says:
Sex before marriage is not even cited by God in scripture. So why worry about something God does not worry about?
@brendavanetten3877 Says:
This doesn´t make sense if God is truly a loving God. So you´re God and you made the humans and you give them a sexdrive that is off the charge and then when they act upon that sexdrive you gave them you will punish them by sending them to hell. I understand why you would sens Hitler to hell or a serial killer but sending a person to hell because that person had sex does not make sense to me. If this is true then this really such.
@TokaAchumi777 Says:
Can we have holy matrimony wedding after we repent and confess for pre marital sex?
@henrytetteh7807 Says:
i have been a Christian for long and this is the best explanation to this question I have ever heard. Thank God for this moment.
@sniper9840 Says:
Thanks for this but what does 1 Corinthians 7:9 mean then? "But if they cannot contain let them marry for it is better to marry then to burn"
@MaceySparrow Says:
I think that Christians should not have sex in first place. Paul was saying himself, that he would prefere eveyone to stay single.
@markjapan4062 Says:
NO IF YOU HAVE SEX YOU ARE AUTOMATICALLY MARRIED IN HEAVEN STAY TOGETHER FOR LIFE
@sl4x372 Says:
"Do not be deceived! For neither fornicators nor sodomites nor adulterers nor thieves nor drunkards nor murderers nor extortionors nor swindlers, these shall not inherit the Kingdom of God." (1 Corinthians 6:9) We repent, turn away from sin, turning to Jesus instead.
@tkcurtis1725 Says:
"You can be forgiven for any sin except blasphemy of the holy spirit...rejecting christ!" Wow...think about that christians! You can rape a child, bang your neighbor's wife, kill innocent homeless folks, torture small animals and a commit a litany of other horrific sins; you just gotta say your sorry. Now talk bad about god! You're f***ed!!!
@Testequip Says:
In biblical times, a man was NOT prohibited from having sexual relations with a woman, as long as it led to marriage.
The Bible never explicitly states a woman and man may not have sexual intercourse prior to marriage; therefore, no sanction was imposed for premarital sex, BUT it was considered a violation of custom
@chrisgeorge27 Says:
So this is my single biggest hang up that I have with Christianity: you are forgiven. Awesome.
You just have to repent and turn from sin and therefore you have a new heart that craves righteousness.
But, we all admit it’s literally impossible to stop sinning…
This seems like a paradox, no?
*just say you’re sorry and stop sinning…but you can’t stop sinning.”
🧐
@gorillagirlgorilla Says:
You're going to hell if u believe in Christ as god. "Only the father is the one true god" jesus works in Bible.
@Dispensational_David Says:
I’m in such a tough situation with this subject. I have been living apart from Christ for the last few years and met a great woman. We bought a house together and now have her 12 yr old son living with us. Since I’ve recommitted my life to Jesus in the past few months I’m convicted about having this intimate relationship with a non believer. I feel like leaving her and her son would be abandonment and not a loving decision being that we otherwise have a great relationship. I don’t believe she would understand and so I’ve chosen to just try and witness to her as of late. But I just don’t know what to do. Any advice is appreciated
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