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On Today's Episode:
The next time you're scrolling through social media or checking out people that are more successful than you and find yourself mad, resentful, minimizing their success, or coming with excuses for your lack of success, remember this…
You can achieve whatever you want in life. You can achieve your biggest, most audacious goals. But you have to start by changing the way you think.
Your job is to seek out, find, and develop the right mindset for success in order to be successful. Success does not happen by accident. Rewiring your brain and the way you think through your failures, your struggles and the obstacles you're facing on a daily basis is more than possible.
Watch this episode when you're ready to receive the key to success. Tom is breaking down everything from what a growth mindset is to why soothing your ego with your psychological immune system is your biggest hindrance to success.
QUOTES:
'If you want to be successful, mindset is everything.'
'At the end of the day, only execution matters.'
'Failure is the most information rich data stream on planet earth.'
'To overcome the endless parade of problems you have to have a way to take responsibility for what you can do differently to overcome those problems, [...] you want to adapt your behavior.'
'You have to constantly pour energy into your own life to make sure that you're making progress to your own goals if you're going to eventually achieve success.'
'A growth mindset is that you believe that your talent and intelligence are not fixed traits, that you can get better at something as you put time and energy into getting better at that thing. It's what I call, the only belief that matters.'
'The people I have found that are the most resilient in life, they have the most intensely developed growth mindset, and that's part of the key.'
'Don't let yourself take on the identity of the victim even when you are victimized because it puts you in a defensive posture.'
'If you really are as good as you think then you should be able to go and build something new using that same skill set.'
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@ShowBizJunkie Says:
Why do you guys have podcasts lasting hours after hours?
It is a big turn-off. You guys keep babbling and babbling and don't come to the point.
I wish the podcasts were just 30 minutes with clear-cut topics.
@tesev7225 Says:
one of top 3 videoz i've seen in 20 yearz. i'v watched it maant timez and typed notes in a spreadSheet. And i'm starting PoPGM (including prioritizing i learned from Mozi
@carnivoredietnetwork Says:
Thank you Tom for this amazing talk, it is wildly inspiring for me! I am putting this video on a loop for today and I will be driving for the next eight hours.
@dameanvil Says:
00:00 🧠 Developing a growth mindset allows rewiring your thinking and aiming for goals by consistently executing plans.
02:44 🛑 The psychological immune system aims to soothe but tends to blame external factors for failures, hindering personal growth.
05:48 🔄 Overcoming chaos and achieving success demands continuous energy input and a growth mindset.
06:00 🌱 A growth mindset believes abilities aren't fixed, emphasizing improvement with time and effort.
09:37 🧩 A fixed mindset views abilities as static, limiting growth potential and hindering progress.
11:41 🌱 Humans are naturally wired for growth and improvement, challenging the notion of fixed abilities.
14:41 📈 Adopting a growth mindset enables achieving significant improvements in any area of life.
16:59 🔍 Resilience often stems from a well-developed growth mindset, vital for overcoming life's challenges.
18:10 💪 Transforming oneself physically reinforces the belief in personal growth and potential.
19:19 🚫 A fixed mindset often leads to self-doubt and reliance on external excuses, hindering progress.
20:42 🌟 Focusing on external blame or excuses doesn't propel personal growth or contribute to one's success.
21:51 🚀 Having a growth mindset enables significant improvement and achievement in any field by staying focused and persistent.
23:01 🌟 High achievers maintain an optimistic mindset, believing in the possibility of overcoming challenges and improving continuously.
24:25 🔑 Consistency, resilience, and continual self-improvement are keys to surpassing challenges and achieving success.
26:20 💡 Taking personal responsibility and focusing on solutions rather than external factors are crucial for achieving desired outcomes.
27:27 🔄 Pattern interrupts and cognitive behavioral techniques help in breaking negative thought patterns for personal growth.
29:43 🧠 Understanding cognitive distortions and adapting to a growth mindset allows for personal advancement and learning from experiences.
32:00 📚 Building a growth mindset involves recognizing the potential for improvement, even in areas where one initially feels inadequate.
35:00 🚪 Embracing a learning-oriented mindset over the need to be right is pivotal for expedited personal growth and success.
39:37 🌟 Taking responsibility for one's life choices empowers personal growth and minimizes the victim mentality for greater achievement.
43:03 🌍 When faced with overwhelming problems, don't believe you can't contribute. Even a small effort matters in the larger scheme of things.
46:40 🧠 Brain plasticity allows rewiring at any age; repetition helps rewire by creating more efficient pathways in the brain.
50:06 🧠 Intelligence is a mix of innate and malleable traits; focus on getting better at something rather than being fixated on inherent abilities.
53:03 📈 Executing goals trumps having the best mindset; the process of progress involves failure analysis, refining hypotheses, and relentless execution.
56:05 🧠 Reframe failure:Avoid blaming external factors; high achievers focus on self-improvement rather than making excuses.
57:54 🔄 Create habits to rewire the brain: Focus on repeating actions that align with your goals, interrupt negative thought patterns to weaken them.
01:00:08 🔄 Pattern interrupt negative self-talk: Stop reinforcing negative thoughts, repeat positive affirmations that drive you toward your goals.
01:02:00 🔄 Establish habits for progress: Consistently list and execute tasks aligned with your goals, ensuring clarity and actionable steps.
01:02:57 🌱 Growth mindset execution: Repeating positive actions consistently over time leads to significant progress.
01:04:18 📈 Continuous Improvement: Strive to continually improve and demonstrate your value so profoundly that it becomes undeniable.
01:08:54 🚀 Earning Respect: Respect is earned through competence; focus on improving your skills to gain respect rather than seeking validation.
01:13:42 🎭 Being Authentic: Strive to maintain authenticity and composure in crucial conversations, grounding yourself in your capabilities to demand respect.
01:18:45 💡 Kindness and Respect: Kindness and competence are not mutually exclusive. Building teams and fostering kindness can elevate respect.
01:24:33 ⬆ Overcoming Disrespect: Overcome disrespect by either removing yourself from a toxic environment or by acknowledging vulnerability while striving for growth.
01:25:55 🤝 Sympathy vs. empathy: Seek understanding, not pity. Choose empathy over wanting others to feel sorry for you.
01:26:26 🤲 Support over sympathy: When down, prefer a helping hand to pity. Focus on growth and being lifted up rather than being pitied.
01:27:10 🌱 Embrace failure: Failure is part of success. Learn from it, earn respect through resilience, not by seeking sympathy or commanding it.
01:28:09 🚀 Mindset shift: Failure offers valuable insights. Remove ego, focus on improvement, and learn from setbacks consistently.
01:29:19 🎯 Physics of progress: Success involves goals, obstacles, theories, failures, learning, and starting again more intelligently.
01:30:15 🌍 Cultural perceptions: Some cultures may discourage rising above. Prioritize your goals while respecting values, build boundaries if necessary.
01:33:01 🛤 Navigating cultural expectations: Acknowledge, but don't be controlled by cultural values that conflict with your goals. Build independence, set boundaries, and pursue your path respectfully.
@alanrichard1727 Says:
Tom I want to say thank you, thank you, thank you! You're a blessing to mankind. Keep up keep on your amazing work.
❤❤❤
@Drillsbuildskills_ Says:
Gemini sun or mercury?
@Sam9wilson9 Says:
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@That_Guy_You_Know Says:
Chosing what to get better at for me has been an endless struggle.
I've been in a place where I have lived a "growth mindset" for at least a decade or more. The issue has been jumping from one thing to another as I convince myself that the new thing is the best thing to become excellent at.
The end result is being "good" at tons of things but "excellent" at very few.
@selfilm1 Says:
This is spot on Tom. Can’t thank you enough.
@sergekamga4512 Says:
I used to listen to tony robins. I wish he gave advices like these. He’s too much show with some substance
@sergekamga4512 Says:
Incredible valuable advice. I will listen to this video multiple times until I can live the growth mindset
@Lozza.81 Says:
Really enjoy and appreciate your content. Always packed with information and inspiration. I'm 42 and have been struggling with mindset change for years. Now I'm more determined than ever to step up for myself and my family. And listening to the right people and not wasting time on useless entertainment and listening to other peoples judgement is the first step.
@user1967-d7o Says:
What an incredible video! First time I commented on a video before watching half way. Awesome content brother!❤
@zebrasharq Says:
Great video! I would like to know more about the fractional reserve system. I believe this is the leverage that puts more money into the system that exponentially increases risk. I believe that productivity has to perpetually increase over time to prevent a capital society from economic collapse unless deflation occurs in the system. Maybe you could get an economic expert to explain this to me.
Comment: i appreciate your impresve attitude to improve yourself and learn so many things. I can relate to your life drive/curiosty. You inspire me to go to my next level. Thanks.
Ps I'm an Einstein fan too.
@faithandaffirmations Says:
❤❤❤
@prestoncreed8736 Says:
Couldn’t be more grateful for all that you share Tom. The net positive & impact you’ve had on humanity with your acquired wisdom and that of your guests cannot be overstated. All the best man
@kevindittler6524 Says:
This is by far the BEST AND MOST IMPORTANT SHOW YOU HAVE EVEN DONE!!🙏 Clean Clear and Concise. This is one of only very few that I have shared with my daughters on future guidance. Many times kids do not want to really listen to their parents until maybe many years later after they’ve learned the hard way of what you were trying to explain to them and this is exactly what they need to hear from a person that has proven the truth about what it takes to Actually Achieve what they have set out to do! Absolutely FANTASTIC JOB Thank You Very Much!!!🙏🙏✨🏋️♂️
@janetfrench8167 Says:
Thank You so very much for inspiring me. I’m moved to get up and with God as my partner and confidante put into action the knowledge and philosophies you have generously presented …being 100% committed … and being relentless!
@heatherkeeping6773 Says:
Superior shows, Tom!!! Thank you and so appreciated by me and all!
@jocelynbryant3308 Says:
OMG!!!! That is why your style appeals to me... UR an ARIES!!! YAY!
@jocelynbryant3308 Says:
Your speech rhythm is so funny😂😂 but true.
@ZhalaHuseynova Says:
thanks a million for your videos ❤
@MyExpertAccountant Says:
Anyone laugh at me I'll tell them to eff what have they tried?
@SleepyCritter1 Says:
The mere fact Tom's subscriber count keeps rising and will never plateau, even as competition in self-help movement gets vicious, is because he's methods are super easy and work for everybody! Quite literary, folks are dancing their way to the bank, day after day, thanks to the advice of this man for their new found riches! The only bit we split ways, is Tom is unapologetically tough on himself! Like I'm sure one can still achieve all those things but without the extra misery like fasting 365 days a year whereas a third that is just as fine, or waking up in 11 minutes everyday whereas its OK on days you have no agenda! And so, millions of folks are embracing the Tom-advice-lite and yet still going on to accrue massive amounts of wealth at historical records!
@MMyL7 Says:
I don’t think I can understand how much value Tom in this video brings. But I’m already so greateful for what I can understand
@TannisKK Says:
how is the mouth on his T-shirt dog opening and closing? It looks like it's panting or alive or something :)
@kayakMike1000 Says:
I set my mind to "warp drive"
@johnzeegler8641 Says:
You def have your stuff together, young man. Love your videos.❤
@billstephens5472 Says:
You can teach a dog new Tricks, if the dog wants to learn!
@billstephens5472 Says:
Nelson Mandela came from a Royal family and was a trained lawyer and activist.
@billstephens5472 Says:
In addition to winning an Academy Award. Kobe also spoke Fluent Italian and had a pilot license and could fly a Helicopter.
@thedarkriver1 Says:
This video is it! No reason to seek answers elsewhere. Let's get on it people!!
@nelsonfunez Says:
You are absolutely right! Responsibility (Response-Ability). The amount of responsibility you take for everything that happens to you is directly proportional to the ability to respond to that or any situation. We should all believe that everything that happens to us, is our own fault. That way we can respond properly, fix it and learn then move on.
@doctork1708 Says:
Admires a rapist.
@JohnLaird7 Says:
Excellent articulation Tom! Very well said!
@carsembregts6645 Says:
NTM
physics of progress 00:47
kobe's approached 15:05
achievers self talk 22:58
remove cognitive distortion 27:22
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action plan, to do next 57:43
get so good, they can't ignore you 1:04:04
@cynthianeal9277 Says:
I am now so grateful that my Dad always had my back. If I came home, upset about under performing in something. the first thing he would say is you are a Neal. Let's go practise til you are number one. I miss my Dad.
@SamSung-rv9rm Says:
This is gold. Thank you Tom. You helped me see what I need to do to turn a big traumatic injury into helping others, recognize my God given gifts as a coach, healer, musician and you showed me the gap that I need to work on to fulfill on my mission. Empathy is what we need not sympathy as that never advance us. You are rad. Awesome soul
@keatongroom Says:
How do you know the difference between quitting, or changing directions because you know/think something isnt for you?
@pinkclassy6984 Says:
Thank you Tom, you just gave me new perspectives that made me push further to achieve my goals 😊
@thekellumlewis Says:
I love how moving away from your goal of feeling smarter was actually a smart move and made you smarter!
@rellevisionnetwork Says:
I literally watch this video everyday so it can stick
@imagistatheimagista1870 Says:
Holy F@ck!!! Best advice ever!!! 🙌🏼
@CassieDarknessHurd Says:
So do you think that you have control over who you really love.
@DisciplineMentorsWW Says:
Thank you G
@CazadorSafetyOfficer Says:
You've been a prospect on my list of mentors but this talk solidifies your position.
@ascgazz Says:
When you go through what stops most people you don’t even mention HEALTH!
Disgusting.
@ascgazz Says:
All this stuff is great to listen to, but in the very middle of my peak and my growth mindset, my thyroid decided to try and kill me and I haven’t been well since.
This growth mindset bullshit is only designed for a very very tight niche.
And if your body decides to fuck you like mine decided to fuck me halfway through this growth mindset, it’s going to fucking destroy you.
Then what?
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