Big goals require DISCIPLINE. By it's very nature, discipline requires you to do hard things - and that is a skill you can LEARN. I'm teaching my process to build Ironclad Discipline in a new workshop - you can register at discipline.impacttheory.com!
Why is change so hard? If it was easy everyone would be doing it and maybe the world would be a much better place. But, those of us with the best of intentions and the grandest of goals struggle with knowing who we are and connecting where we are with the distant reality of who we want to become. Can you relate? Changing your identity demands much more than most are willing to push through. The discipline, the self-awareness, the relentless pursuit of self-control and the skill it takes to adopt an identity worth pursuing are challenges and obstacles, but none of it translates to being impossible. Tom is unpacking the power of identity. Its power to change the course of your life and put you in higher situations and opportunities to succeed like you've never imagined. Get ready to take notes and do some reflecting. If you are serious about changing your life around and executing at the highest level it's going to require work, and it starts right now! Let's GO!
SHOW NOTES:
0:00 | Introduction to Identity
0:56 | What Is Identity?
11:34 | Finish What You Start
17:55 | How To Be Congruent
22:00 | Identity Demands You Keep Going
28:02 | Emotional Control Is A Must
35:24 | Adopting Your New Identity
43:21 | Use Discipline and Punishment
48:04 | Become More Powerful
53:38 | Weight Loss Discipline
58:20 | Become Who You Want
QUOTES:
'I'm just dumb enough to make a lot of mistakes. But just smart enough to fix some of them.' [13:44]
'For whatever weird fucking reason humans want to be congruent, so if you tell somebody you are something, then you want to act in congruence with that, otherwise, it does not feel good.' [19:29]
'I have found in the moment where you most want to panic, downshift�' [30:14]
'We only do and believe that which moves us towards our goals.' [39:04]
'Building your ultimate sort of version of yourself is a very complicated endeavor, but if you get the identity right, you're probably 60% of the way there.' [41:08]
'If you're gonna model yourself after me, let me tell you the ability to build desire. That shit is my like, secret fucking weapon�' [44:45]
'There is real power in anger, frustration, and not wanting somebody to get one over on you. On winning against all odds' [59:39]
'If you want to make real change, the number one thing missing from your equation I promise you is massive pressure. [...] There also has to be massive desire, you've got to really want it.' [1:00:07]
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