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Welcome back to another thought-provoking episode of Impact Theory! Today we're diving into the complex world of relationships and social dynamics with the insightful psychologist, Sadia Khan.
In this eye-opening, hard to hear discussion, we examine how the allure of beauty on social media has transformed the landscape of modern relationships, often leading women to prioritize their appearance while men lose sight of relationship values that are important to selecting well.
Hear me when I say, there is NOTHING that has brought me more joy and wellbeing in my life than my 21 year marriage with Lisa. From material wealth to millions of followers, downloads, awards and sales, nothing has mattered more to me.
If you want to master life, you have to master pair bonding.
Sadia is a psychologist and relationship expert known for seemingly controversial viewpoints when it comes to modern dating and the roles men and women are taking. We unpack the negative implications of:
- Over-glorifying a single trait,
- The importance of core values such as honesty, integrity, respect, and care for your partner's well-being, and
- How manipulation can shape relationships for better or worse.
This conversation challenges societal norms and expectations. We talk about the value of monogamy, the misunderstood perceptions of feminism, and if the independent woman is creating her own roadblocks for true connection.
Wait till you hear Sadia's view on women submitting to their men in relationships. Is it necessary? Is it a natural inclination for women? Why are women struggling so much with the idea of submitting to their male partners?
This episode isn't just about love and relationships; we're going to expose the misconceptions often spread by 'red pill' content that's targeting the weak and vulnerable men in need of healthier perspectives when it comes to women, love, and relationship power dynamics.
Your journey to a better understanding of human behavior and relationships starts here.
SADIA KHAN QUOTES:
'What social media has done is allowed women a platform to kind of showcase their body, their preferences, basically put themselves in the marketplace.'
'We have to start learning to reject rather than glorifying the one ingredient we like.'
'If I dilute my experience with you by also talking to Tom, Dick and Harry, what will happen is I'm wasting energy not realizing that you might be really bad for me, [...] it creates internal chaos, whereas internal consistency will allow us to know what's good and bad for us.'
'Feminism has taught women that catering and appreciating and showing love for your man is babying him and he should be a grown up and he should do it himself.'
'A secure, healthy woman is not attracted to men who treat her mean, she's attracted to a man who has a willingness to leave if she misbehaves too much.'
'Just because it doesn't hurt doesn't mean it's not a deal breaker.'
'When I talk about narcissistic women it is because we've tilted it where women are automatic victims and sometimes they are the narcissist in the relationship.'
'I always say to men that competition is not other men. It's her childhood. If it's totally chaotic, no matter how much stability you provide her, she'll find it very, very difficult to settle into that stable relationship.'
'When you meet a man who is such a safe bet and so secure, submission is a natural consequence, [...] You'd be missing out on a great connection simply because you want to maintain your independence. But independence is overrated.'
'I don't recommend ever being with a man that you can control. You become a woman that you don't like.'
'I don't necessarily know that the woman needs to submit, but the guy needs to lead.' Tom Bilyeu
'Good women are not attracted to money. They're attracted to the process of a disciplined, self-controlled man. But vacuous women are attracted to the outcome, not the process.'
'If you couldn't access her without money, then chances are any man with money can access her.'
Follow Sadia Khan:
Website: https://www.sadiapsychology.com/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@sadiapsychology
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@sadiapsychology
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sadiapsychology/
WARNING: I will never ask for your contact info in the comments section, that is someone impersonating me!
@jamaicanboy2010 Says:
I 100% believe people know what they are doing with structural racism and the economic cast system in America and th UK!
@Chief_Chill Says:
I'm 12 minutes in - and I agree with almost everything Sadia is saying with the exception of the religious and the opposite segment of the conversation. I think a healthy middle playground is where a huge chunk of secular people slide, swing, and monkey bar around at til it's curfew time and they gotta choose a long term mate... #LifeIsntBlackAndWhite #ThereAre5000shadesofGrey
@magnaajube7784 Says:
A lovely video both of you relating nicely! Advance the topic!!
@michaelprzybysz3789 Says:
I never heard before dude bragging for 30 minutes how perfect husband he is.
At some pint even she seems to be slightly sceptical about his story.
@boomhawk6217 Says:
In my personal experiences throughout life, women seem to be demons
@ggr68 Says:
A podcast without bookmarks is devious
@DennisAdams-p1e Says:
0:46 Humuour is the highest form of intelligence.
@DennisAdams-p1e Says:
It is about the self. The connection with your self and overcoming the parental complex. Responding to emotional responses with discern, ignoring both with humour. It is being you, your own voice, your own internal GOD. When you master this,.you will master others by your awareness of all the tests you face, we then have to face them with flair, dignity, gracefully. Relac, live, love,breathe, play, it's just a game
@atticuskhan893 Says:
Getting fact checked from google
@yasinkamulegeya655 Says:
I love listening to Sadia Khan. I think Tom talked a little too much in this one. No offense though.
@ralphmuthimakabwe2445 Says:
🎉 am short of words. This is great !
@alikkk824 Says:
Oh dude throughout the video there was so many times you deserved a slap man...
@diegoriveira3579 Says:
I can’t listen to this guy, he is so full of sh.t
@Corsairforu Says:
Around 17:00, that part about Pork, I was talking to a Seventh Day Adventist at work one day about him not eating cheese burgers and he said the Bible mentions not mixing meat and milk in a meal "You shall not boil a kid in its mother's milk" Exodus 34:2- this is often interpreted by Jewish tradition as a general prohibition against mixing meat and dairy products in the same meal. I mentioned it to someone else one night at a party and she said "well that makes sense due to one is high in PH and the other is Acidic" or something to that effect.
@CerOscuras10k Says:
It's not that the Japanese are racist. They want to be sure kalian stays Japan. The Japanese culture won't dilute. I'm America we accept anyone. But in accepting anyone we also accept their culture as well. If you go to any other country to immigrate you have to learn their culture and their language. In America it's the opposite. They bring their culture here. They don't need to learn the English language which creates dependance on the government and it's citizens. This is what Japan wants to avoid. They allow immigration but a very small amount only if you qualify
@rafeeqturner1458 Says:
Being in a romantic relationship and not married, is not "traditional." Her parents made a huge mistake, allowing her to make her own DATING decisions (past & present)
@86nviglizzo Says:
Nice job well said.
@Retrocaus Says:
problem is you guys are boomers try dating today
@drivethruabortion280 Says:
An 8 talking to a 5. It happens!
@ewan5536 Says:
great from Sadia, but....the man in the cap is a confused dickhead, he is so in the closet!
@zacharychampagne2877 Says:
the problem is woman don't want to be tied to one MAN, they view a man as a finacial investment, they think if i can just hold out maried to this man, for a few years then just leave, then I can just take half his money, they don't really care, it don't bother them at all, very sad, marriage is not met for every one. Men must be very cautious, and feel if this woman really loves you, or if your a woman does this man really love you, if you have any dout. do not tie the knot, Marriage is very,very,very,very serious.
@sajsaj7217 Says:
Sadia you are very amazing, your foundation is natural from Islamic traduction and same time you understand the west culture with its weakness and good values. I am married in arranged way and is good for me
God bless
@Alma-e3b Says:
You know why some wives don't appreciate their husbands enough? It's because the husbands don't have an intrinsic idea how hard running a household and taking care of children are and they dont appreciate women as they should be appreciated. A woman can work and bring home the bacon but can the men run a household and raise kids as efficiently as women do? So why should men expect appreciation for something their wives can do too? Husbands want to be respected for their work but they don't respect their wives' hardwork too at home as if women's input in the family's dynamic is less valuable.
@sini573rfox7 Says:
Women have a problem with pornography due to the fact that it means they lose their stranglehold over men’s sexuality prostitutes have been around since the beginning of time pornography is a non issue women controlling and weaponising sex is an issue
@drivethruabortion280 Says:
💰🏋🍤🏠
@tevinhenderson2412 Says:
Dude said gender is in the head 😂😂😂😂😂 s joke
@henryjumbohead5391 Says:
Women have given too much access to sex and they’ve flooded the market. Sex no longer is meaningful as it’s too easy to obtain. This has resulted in the reduction of chivalry and valuation of women by men. Finding a respectable girl is now so much harder than it used to be. Women expect tradition men, yet they are failing to meet the standards of a traditional female.
@paulsaragosa371 Says:
Ima not worth a penny a day
@paulsaragosa371 Says:
I'm just saying that I am irreplaceable song by Beyonce irreplaceable song
@julietastes181 Says:
The thing with the orgasm isn't true. But the quality of an orgasm is completely different if women love a man.
@marcosrua7223 Says:
I'm 36 highly successful but single male.
After watching this I feel like shit about myself😂😂
@color4music Says:
للعرب فقط واعني ماقول ، ليست ملاحظتي للمسلمين من غير العرب! لماذا ؟ موضوع اخر..... المهم: دائما هناك كلمات تستعمل لمماهاة الغرب، مثل : انا لا اعني انني احكم على احد ! او مثلا: لا اقول ان ذلك صح او خطأ . او او او >>>>> الكثير من قضاء الوقت والدماغ والتفكير والمعاناه في التوازي مع الغرب بكلامه قبل فعله ومااعنيه ان اضاعه الوقت بايجاد الكلام والمصطلحات من اجل ارضاء الغرب بارائنا رغم ان الغرب لا يعني ابدا بماهاتنا بقدر ما يفعل ما يريد وفقط وما يؤمن وفقط!لو دخلو حجر ضب لدخلتموه... المسلمين من غير العرب لا يحملون الاسلام كما يجب ولا يعرفون اصلا كيف ، كما العرب.لا يعنيكي ما يفكرون وعيشي ارائك وكوني انتي لنفسك وتابعي فهناك الكثير والكثير اهم من ركوب سكة الغرب وبعربه غربية !!!!!
@khaledmansour4 Says:
He is just missing the shahada and be muslim
"لا إله إلا الله محمد رسول الله"
meaning there is only one god and Muhammad is his messenger
@honestpainter Says:
I really enjoyed watching a goddess interviewed by a Simp
@uglyandattractive Says:
Ya, ya, ummh huh, ummh huh, ya, ya..
Shut up and let him talk. She's so desperate to own the conversation instead of having one. Talk about narcissistic
@nicholasatwell1360 Says:
I don't know about this video doesn't seem like it's for america
@ModernDatingMastery Says:
*Women respond to the energy you project, and it’s all about controlling that vibe. It’s not manipulation, it’s understanding human nature. Has anyone here tried shifting their mindset and seen the change in how women respond to them?*
@zacharychampagne2877 Says:
Girl's Don't Want to Be with Just with one MAN, it's 2024. Woman want what they can get from a Man, not A MAN that can just Show love, and Provide. There Just Not interested, even if the man is Attractive. Funny, and charming. Woman get Bored so they Keep themselves available So SAD 😞 Not many Good Woman. Left, Guy's Be very very very Careful.
@TheVigilantEye77 Says:
We ARE replaceable. By Uncle Sam if no one else
@MsPoppPopp Says:
I'm traditional but not that traditional where parents do arranged marriages. As adults we have to go through life trials and learn on our own and be our ownself even at times we can be self destructive through our own decisions and choices. I think maybe the freedom of choices sometimes can make a person ungrateful.
@KrINekroN Says:
her voice its pleasure
@jwaugh319 Says:
Hot sweaty sex
@jwaugh319 Says:
Being hacked
@jwaugh319 Says:
Love u gorgeous
@jwaugh319 Says:
Here ❤
@alistairmills7608 Says:
This is an excellent podcast.
Thank you.
https://youtu.be/9I39boHZYjI?si=9QfxQuobxfPEsSCt
@COSkywatch Says:
I just love her. So damn got it down.
@tb22k Says:
❤
@COSkywatch Says:
God this was a wonderful video. I lost my traditional wife and she just knew how to care for my needs! She is spot on!
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