Stop Chasing Happiness: Master The Psychology Of Pleasure, Power & Success Instead | Arthur Brooks

Stop Chasing Happiness: Master The Psychology Of Pleasure, Power & Success Instead | Arthur Brooks

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Restart Your Life in 7 Days: https://bit.ly/3RgzVhi 'Life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness�' You've heard this many times before, and yet have you ever wondered why life and liberty are automatically given and assumed while happiness isn't . Why are millions of people around the world chasing happiness and very few ever 'catch' it? Arthur Brooks is a social scientist, Harvard professor, and bestselling author committed to helping people find success, happiness and deep meaning. He's such a profound thought-leader in the space that he just released a book with Oprah called Build the Life You Want, The Art and Science of Getting Happier. We explore a deeply thought-provoking conversation about the pursuit of happiness through progress, learning, and understanding. As simple as the idea of happiness seems on the surface, understanding the complexities of what it means to pursue it, relish tt, and define the meaning of it without attachment and dogmatic viewpoints escapes many people. Some key areas we dive hard and deep on that I think you will find so interesting are: 1) The role of progress in human flourishing 2) The danger of being attached and dogmatic with your beliefs 3) The importance not allowing your views to define you What I enjoyed most about our conversation was how far we explored and unpacked in areas that are potentially controversial topics like religious beliefs, political differences, and family schisms. Get ready to challenge your base assumptions and view existential threats from new angles. ARTHUR BROOKS QUOTES: 'The idea that you can be blissful and happy all the time is not just unrealistic, it's unhealthy. It would be terrible if you were happy all the time.' 'If you don't defend your positions, if you admit to the possibility that you're not right, that you learn and you update when people say things that you think are crazy, you say, tell me more that you're actually going to get better.' 'Any time you use your values as a weapon, you've denigrated their moral content. You've eviscerated the effectiveness of your approach. But if you use your values as a gift it might not always be taken in a charitable way.' 'Each of us is an entrepreneur in the startup of our lives. That's what really matters. And what we need is to always have a clear intention�' 'The best thing that you can possibly do is to think about the emotions that you're feeling, what they mean and how best to use them.' 'All the things we really want in life. All of our deep desires are complex. All of our solutions are complicated, and we're throwing complicated solutions at complex problems and we're not getting happier.' 'They're not entrepreneurial in the part of life that matters the most, which is their heart.' ''The first one is that there is meaning. You need to find it and live up to it.' Follow Arthur Brooks: Website: https://arthurbrooks.com/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/arthurbrooks YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@arthurbrooks123 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/arthurcbrooks/

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@TomBilyeu Says:
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@elena-251 Says:
thank you so much
@elena-251 Says:
thank you
@suziebrouillet758 Says:
The audience here, grandmother 67 years old, retired absolutely love and appreciate the content of IT!
@BigDiscussions76 Says:
One in six Americans is not talking to family members due to politics🤣 My favorite line in this talk. People are erasing you🤣
@casrolynsapountzis6361 Says:
Wow business intoxicating wankerness… you need path…
@casrolynsapountzis6361 Says:
Seriously what a male perspective what a joke
@casrolynsapountzis6361 Says:
Progress and family court are a desirable outcome but justice is so fucked up thinktcan evoke bullshit seriously this democracy is broken mate we kn ok w the faults failing the updates in our brain
@casrolynsapountzis6361 Says:
Seriously you have zero idea re family court I agree with all you say
@rvmisfitcomic8865 Says:
So Happiness is a destination? I need to ride on that train my whole life? Don’t get off at the stops?
@rvmisfitcomic8865 Says:
Sex with your wife serves another human. Masterbation feels great but you are alone so that selfish feeling maxes out.
@許凱雲 Says:
Is reading pleasure or enjoyment
@myphonyaccount Says:
1:51:13 yes the audience is still with you!
@myphonyaccount Says:
58:09 biology is not just psychology, you CAN'T just think bad thoughts away, psychology IS biology, which means psychedelics are updating brain hardware as much as mind software. THCA destroys anxiety without intoxication of THC, CBD destroys depression #stonedapetheory
@dandonohill Says:
Arthur mentions the major religions interchangeably because there are elements of truth to each but christianity meaning Catholicism in particular has tons of evidence..we see creation all around us.we see humans are fallen with free will,we see good and evil but only Jesus lived a sinless life and did numerous miracles...to this day we see eucharistic miracles,,incorrupt saints,the evidence of the shroud of Turin,,Marion aparitions,miracle cures in many places like lourdes.,stigmatas and excorcisms.....How much evidence do people need?Jesus Christ is the way .
@dandonohill Says:
Faith is not without evidence,we all see the incredible design all around us that is not an accident...you need impossible faith to actually believe that the intelligent design we see is not designed..
@KFK Says:
Everyone in the world should watch this video, and rethink what is "me"! Impressive and enlighten people!
@jenmahuet Says:
ADHD, a "funny" dx? This is such an ignorant and arrogant statement from someone who fancies himself an authority.
@jaxster212 Says:
He keeps cutting him off, let him finish answering 🙏🏽
@Qwuiet Says:
For those who are struggling and feeling depressed, I understand that it isn't easy. It becomes especially challenging to persevere when you don't feel validated, and everyone around you appears to be doing better than you. It's not entirely your fault; you were dealt a bad hand. However, have faith because a bad hand might be a blessing in disguise, you just never know. Never give up.
@IMForeman27 Says:
We are totally in a sarcastic universe.
@Owlsworthy Says:
Tom’s God shaped hole is his demon Ni and Fe as an ISTP 😂
@thaddaeusbappe2495 Says:
If you want to get better at looking at the world, work in a prison. If ever housed in one, the inmates watch everyone and everything. If you really want to know about society, study prison life. It is society without defrosting.
@lauragiles5193 Says:
Theologian John Haught, retired from Georgetown, writes fascinating books on evolution and our understanding of God.
@kingbankz305 Says:
Definitely deep and very thought provoking!! 🤟🏾🤟🏾🤟🏾
@gardencali-arkansasstyle6995 Says:
Great interview and uplifting good information. Thank you kindly💕
@SooskyPoosk Says:
The best talks I’ve seen in a long time - the section about how to extricate your identity 👌
@njoyarosengreen1196 Says:
Hey..😮😂
@judygreenwell334 Says:
If Mother Nature wired our brains to seek/achieve ‘satisfaction’ (to keep mankind motivated and evolving), wouldn’t teaching people to ‘hack’ their brains to be ‘happy’ contravene Mother Nature’s intention - evolutionary growth?
@dulcebaptista9769 Says:
Why interview this person. .. maybe my ignorancy. Unsubscibed.
@kardencsmith3848 Says:
This guy is full of shite! I am happy all the time. Happiness us a choice, a decision.
@Angiecb8 Says:
I’m a woman in my 30’s. Boys aren’t the only audience. 😉
@NarrelleChain Says:
This young guy needs to do more listening because he knows very little! Just an observation!❤❤❤❤the kingdom of God is now within you! Go inside, do not look outside, this world is illusion!😂😂interesting show!
@Foolishfool7669 Says:
Boring
@zanedzikonski4234 Says:
You lost me at Oprah. I’m out.
@3TNT3 Says:
This guy looks juuuuust like an age progression of Jake Gyllenhaal
@musicalmetamorphosis Says:
What an awesome episode!! Arthur Brooks dares to express truths most academics do not. Thanks IMPACT THEORY.
@bloodyknowzZ Says:
These guys are clowns 🤡, just because you say you love an item doesn’t mean you don’t love your family god etc , it’s not that deep bro
@RiseWithRaina Says:
Forever thankful for this channel. Implementing things I have learned on here has changed my life. Thank you Tom. You & your wife have allowed me to glean wisdom from so many incredible humans including yourselves. 🫶🏻
@otfinoskiotfinoski8856 Says:
So your a jew in Auschwitz. All you had to eat all week was rancid bone soup. You just got the snot beat out of you by a sadistic guard with a shovel. Your laying in the mud counting your teeth when it starts to snow. You notice how beautiful the snowflakes look before they melt in your pooling blood. GEE ISNT LIFE BEAUTIFUL you think. Really? Idont think so.
@LAKitchen Says:
Tom, this was an amazing guest. Can you PLEASE stop talking over him and interrupting. Annoying .. lol
@Scythersmile1 Says:
So dumb. Political differences are heavily enmeshed with value differences in many cases extremely substantial. I don’t blame someone for not wanting to associate with another that has a polarizing value difference.
@northofyou33 Says:
It is actual abuse if, say, you are mixed race and your white grandparents' political views are racist. Sorry, but the personal is political, very often.
@ALANMcK1956infj Says:
I've been watching this and I'm just wondering if anybody else sees the common sense
@aminblm Says:
Tom, your follow-ups are the cherry on top! 🍒🎧 #CherryOnTop #SpotOnQuestions
@Featherchild Says:
Mother Nature tells me to love others and save our planet
@karinagarcia-canchon9620 Says:
Best guest! I was very impacted will put some actions to my daily protocol!! Thank you
@tedwright7046 Says:
2:40:21 This section right here is quotable for Finding Meaning in life. Genuine wisdom in this video. Thanks Tom for the excellent content and amazing guests :)
@jenniferreed-milless6410 Says:
Thank you Arthur Brooks for not being afraid to talk about your Catholic faith. You are an inspiration to all, to share what you believe in openly and unafraid. God bless you.
@Dievolve Says:
I dig the theological discussion and waxing philosophical. I would say AI technologies deployed through social media are already controlling society like a religion. Maybe a false profit but one that people seem more comfortable with than the Great Mystery.

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