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If you're like most people, odds are that you're not exactly where you want to be in life.
But no matter what your definition of success is, or what you're trying to accomplish, the simple truth is this: you're not yet where you want to be because you don't yet have the skills required to get there.
In this talk at the Ice House in Pasadena, CA, I dive deep into the hard truths about what it takes to become extraordinary, regardless of what you're pursuing.
If you're feeling stuck, lacking ambition, or just don't think you're good enough to get where you want to go, then buckle up because this talk will shake you out of your comfort zone and get you back on track to pursuing a life of fulfillment!
SHOW NOTES:
00:00 | Ambition vs. Drive
11:12 | Self-Worth and Achievement
19:07 | Grit Isn't Sexy
30:34 | Permission to Fail
39:13 | The Ultimate Adaptation Machine
45:39 | The Brain That Changes Itself
56:28 | Being Average Is Enough
QUOTES:
'Fulfillment is often born of suffering. But it has to be suffering with a purpose.' [08:13]
'I'm not telling you not to chase money. I'm just saying it's not going to feed you emotionally the way you think it is.' [15:32]
'Facing what you've done wrong, owning it, accepting it, allows you to not make that mistake the next time.' [33:07]
'Every time something goes wrong in my life, I am asking myself one simple question. 'What is it that I suck at?' I suck at something, there's something I'm doing wrong. By definition, if I were doing it right, then I would be getting the outcome that I wanted.' [37:50]
'The first step in this incredibly arduous journey that you're going to be on if you want to be extraordinary, is simply to believe you can become extraordinary.' [1:03:29]
What was your favorite takeaway from this keynote?
@lilianagarcesrosero Says:
@TomBilyeu i follow you for a long time, for about 6 years, my life has been a rollercoaster since I was dignosed bipolar, I cant find any video of you interwieving anybody successful with bipolar , I had to start from scratch since I lost everything, want to make but dont know how! Pleqse can you interview someone I can learn from in how to d3al with this diagnose so I can make it
@emilydixon7534 Says:
You cuss way too much!
@anthonygraham3854 Says:
🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
@emilydixon7534 Says:
I love your videos, but you cuss way too much!!😢😢😢
@Kunal.Tiwari. Says:
I am Grateful That I have the Best Mentor to guide Me 😊
Love Your Advice Tom 🩵
I will work Fucking Hard 📈🔥
@vitaliscalixtrato Says:
HI TOM, LOVE YOUR STORY. P.S. USING THE WORD FUCKEN HAS NO PURPOSE.
@mathiasmeier8238 Says:
do you have discussions about climat change in your privatjet? do you think more successful people will save the planet ( people discussing climat change after having success sitting at least in a suv) ?
@Zoe-Mathilda Says:
I always feel like I can do something until I live the moment and my brain talks me out of it
@nancypoesl365 Says:
To much cursing. Are you really being serious or is this a comedy act.😮 If you are a professional you should act like one. You're not helping .We are serious about this and all I'm hearing is cursing .
@briandesjarlais-iu3wb Says:
thank you so much ,i think you would love to hear my story,i swear my body healed itself and
@pamvincent7389 Says:
What are you swearing for. It’s a real shame. You are part of the problem. You swear and curse others follow. NOT ME. For your own sake and if you care about improving ppls lives you are a BIG FAIL. Disgraceful and I had you up there as one of the successes. Not now. Pam Vincent
@ARISH_OFFICIAL_24 Says:
This guy is more influenced by david goggins
@edgarcamarillo5712 Says:
O
@tomdlugosz Says:
I would love to listen to you but the language you use turns me off what you have to say.
@franklopezlmtmti3146 Says:
I wish he could not use fuck word. It is used so often, I forgot the subject. Geez! For FUCKs sake.
@modusvivendi9038 Says:
Tom - can you add couple of words, instead of just impact (it) theory, write it like.... it will be more impactful.
This is
Impact (IT) Theory
By having "This is IT" is making more impactful when it is read by the viewers. This is how I thought so... May be you can take advise from other friends of yours as well.
@aressto Says:
If you royal fuck up with collateral that you can't allow - isn't it a degen game?
@UjjalPurkayastha Says:
20:32 "Second Law of Thermodynamics"=== Best Avice
@mattanderson6672 Says:
Thank you Tom!!
@Gopalthapa-r7m Says:
Great👍👏👍👍👍
@jasminflower3814 Says:
I cant watch this. Way too much swearing for me. If you had children, would you swear at them like this? I hope not. So why do you think your audience wants to listen to you swearing like this or allowing their teenagers to listen to you.
@joshdance9959 Says:
Hey I love your positive and realistic attitude Tom. Thanks 🙂
@ThomHemenway Says:
Didn't know you were from Tacoma! I was born in Auburn and currently live in Puyallup.
@annebrown7510 Says:
Love your messages but find the contrived swearing annoying and distracting from your message in this one.
@ausarauset8157 Says:
164 thousand views and less than 5500 thumbs up. THAT’S DIRECT EVIDENCE that 90% or 95% are MEANT TO BE losers. The evidence is ALL AROUND YOU!
@ausarauset8157 Says:
164 thousand, THOUSAND VIEWERS, and most are LAMES. Most won’t even give a thumbs up. Losers!
@beachandbluesky1 Says:
The vulgar language is a turnoff.
@gregg2097 Says:
would love to recommend you to children of all ages, unfortunately, i can not because of the language.
how do i get a kid to listen, in my group which will be over 100,000 followers in the next 5 years with the language you use
@sanilprakashspeaks Says:
Dear Tom, Please control your use of bad words in every sentence. It makes me very uncomfortable and don't want to listen to you anymore. You are showing our youth that it's cool to use bad words. Please stop or control
@aomthana Says:
Merci beaucoup 🙏
@williamjones3603 Says:
It’s hard to enjoy your message. The language coming from your mouth is bad. The soul of a person is expressed in their choice of words.
@Nightxcloud Says:
53:49 stoned af and parinoad smoking fat fucking doik blunts... bad thought... was like i dont have to believe that cuz its no real they are thoughts never ever had parinoa again. still went to therapy for years tho since i had to learn what thought i should have in my head
@Nightxcloud Says:
46:43 yeah imma start my onlyfans
@timothydickinson7008 Says:
Good
@blendi3825 Says:
Money, money... is all about money for the mediocre brain.
@crepesteak6624 Says:
19:03
@tinishapoitier0000 Says:
THANK YOU
@mrNashmann Says:
tom thanks
@TalkT0Mandy Says:
I wish Tom would write something for a person of ethnic minority who's wanting to be in senior leadership roles. I am an Indian woman and very ambitious.
@gammarayphotonproductions Says:
I'm the smartest man you've never heard of.
Simply put great success is a trek of sorrow because a million other people want to gnaw your bones. There is one carrot on top of that wall, now, all of you go get it. If you want to succeed don't compete. Never compete. There are thousands just like you willing to do just about anything to stop you from getting what you want. Here I break a pool cue in half, now let's have try outs to see who gets the job.
Hey Tom, can you publish the list of books you recommended? Thanks!
@ThomasBall-X Says:
Real American Courage is walking into Obama's office and saying "The twin towers fell through their structures at the same rate they would fall through air. They were controlled demolitions." The physics is the smoking gun. I'm tired of hearing either the unintelligent or uncourageous being praised. They are neither intelligent nor courageous. You have one job as an American. Speak up! We have free speech and free press for a reason. For this very reason. Use them. Now.
@DavidMiller-du9dy Says:
Retiring early is possible but tough, it definitely requires discipline and big sacrifices. It’s not only about saving, the huge step is boosting earning capacity. I’m glad I got into stocks and recently understood and purchased my first NFT.
@PeterMilko Says:
Was epic but the ending that starts another video killed the hype / vibe.
@hudasiddiqui7025 Says:
This Man is out to change the world. One of the best speakers.
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