I do want to limit myself to one partner, but I don't want to have my life dictated by the needs of dependent people that are more important than myself.
@RickScharbau Says:
I will wait for the one ❤
@pirovich Says:
But the problem in the relationships is always different types of money. If you have a lack, especially of the physical money, you need more to compensate the issue of this burden in the relationships. But we cannot do nothing with this. Your partner should sacrifice completely for the other one. Otherwise it's not working in the long-term and you always search for other money - this is the main rule of the universe.
@donnapierangeli6216 Says:
It's all true
@DYXH0RN Says:
Yes Jordan but we want to experience what works and what doesn't and what gives value and what doesn't. No one can teach you that except life it self.
@Noelle23456 Says:
I’m so burdened by having to take care of my sister and 82 year old mother. My brother has a family and no responsibility. I really just want to die. I’m over it!
@stonepaintertim Says:
A long time ago there was a sentiment “ to each his own “
@helenbailey8419 Says:
😂😂😂😂I love his frankness
@JustJdyn Says:
Link the full video?
@hugoroquinho Says:
Why do I think that family is a burden?! Because it's my experience, ahah.
What else would it be?!
@marywilliamson2909 Says:
AR
@elizabethturner1541 Says:
Men are princesses 😂. They need choices and a normal family for them is a burden which doesn't apply for them. And so other women. Too much narcissism in this world, they need to grow up. 😂😂😂
@YunsikCho-l2y Says:
"which I doubt you have anyways" man speaks fire
@AmbientGem-n8d Says:
It would not be labelled as a burden if it's not what you want.
@chillychese Says:
Damn, I really just got called maidenless. I'm just a lowly tarnished one
@lettersandwordsandstuffs Says:
You didnt peterson...plenty men can have 5 chicks no problem😮
@Ooni-q9q Says:
I dont
@melissah1953 Says:
Its a burden if you chose a sophisticated cluster b personality type, who doesnt pull his own weight after pretending he would for years. Baby then bam, he becomes a selfish, blaming, rude and disrespectful partner unwilling to listen or change habits. Cluster b personality type with a high average IQ can be dangerous ❤ but i agree. Its best to try and forge a family and keep it together.
@Meetthemaker1day Says:
There are too many ways a family can destroy a man. With all the cultural shifts, the liabilities are too high. Anecdotally, after taking in step kids and having a few of my own while climbing the ladder to the c-suite, my ex got bored. I have been alone since, lost everything, kids programmed, abused about my SBS brain damage. Not novel at all. Must be nice being “normal”.
@rosehavenfarm2969 Says:
when people say "freedom" in this context, it usually means "license."
@McDanglesFTB Says:
Does anyone know what video this comes from?
@Ceenth Says:
Yes.
@ELVACILONASSO1 Says:
This exactly my thoughts over the last 25 years….
@JACOPO.OFFICIEL Says:
Never had a girlfriend.
Not sure I want one.
Absolutely don't want a family/kids no thanks ! ;)
Most women are not worth it (the same can be said about men).
Yes, I value my FREEDOM more and that's okay.
@cynthiamcgown4789 Says:
That sounds like a person that thinks they’re never going to grow old!
@SbonisoMMDlamini Says:
Isn't the freedom to chose supposed to be so you can make a choice.
@luckypatrick9413 Says:
Agreed. But sometimes, Family is a burden.
@silverlining5796 Says:
❤
@jonnyniemela6693 Says:
I am so grateful for the humbling wisdom and knowledge this man has to offer. Grateful for his amazing way to put words on my existential struggles. Helping me doing the right thing and find meaning through that in life.
@Mrimperfections777 Says:
Thank you JESUS FOR THIS MAN❤
@jgratto84 Says:
A family is a foundation in which we get our motivation ambition is the reason why we try to improve our lives to give our family a better life
@ricksantana1016 Says:
In our current time line with global inflation and housing prices I believe that having a Family is simply untenable at this time…
@kieferonline Says:
I am married and have two children. Daily life is busy and tiring but is also profoundly meaningful. I feel that everything I do to support my family and guide my children is the most important thing I can possibly be doing.
@personne7542 Says:
Avoiding a permanent relationship isn't about freedom to choose sexual partners. It's about peace. It's about the freedom to do what I want around the house or away from the house after I've experienced a grueling day at work. It's about living a life where I don't have to ask some woman permission to play golf or get together with a friend.
@personne7542 Says:
Way more talented/wealthy people than me struggle raising kids. I'd be an idiot to try it myself.
@GlobalVillagerYT Says:
They wouldn't think so if they didn't feel they were coming up short deep down. Most people who can't be good lovers or family-people dismiss love and family as concepts. That's one of those things that's consistent as gravity.
@Jesper-bl2ns Says:
I'm more interested in knowing why this is an issue for you. My interest in why people choose the family lifestyle is close to zero.
I am just getting suspicious that you have a hidden agenda.
I have no interest in the family conformity hellhole. I spent years fighting the conformity compliance pressure, that exploded in the fight against confirmation . If people don't want to marry and have children - just leave them alone.
@Anubisanbu Says:
There like two times so have seen this man wrong and this is the second time
@inkbythebarrelandpaperbyth6905 Says:
To answer his questions from my former point of view I always thought marriage was cancerous an offspring was a metastasizing of that cancer.
I've sensei rethought this and concluded that having a family is a good thing.
It's just not a good thing for me.
@Elwood128 Says:
It's a burden because it costs tons of money to have a family and it's not worth the stress. Should be obvious..
@ProtoMario Says:
Dripped out
@tessa7793 Says:
I have had a blessed and awesome adventurous life before I met the love of my life at 36. We have 4 children now, and that is my greatest achievement.
@Victor-t3t8o Says:
When I don't have my glasses on, J Peterson and Hunter Biden look like the same person.
@pump3820 Says:
😂
@smithertoddsforge2625 Says:
Assuming that family is a burden, it’s the most noble burden you can carry, so take that cross with dignity.
@mfngeez Says:
I got into this shit for reasons I don’t really knw I was young and didn’t have shit else..she gave me a reason to live bc I had some one to love but I didn’t love myself and now 4 kids later I’m still as depressed as I was when my mom died right after we got together. Her family have drove me to hate them and now they hate is driving me away from my wife bc she don’t wana put space between us….I wish I didn’t create any of this shit bc I feel like I gotta leave now to be happy or stay and feel emasculated like shit..My family didn’t fill the hole in my heart.
@thejkyle Says:
I gotta get me one of those “heaven and hell” suits.
@HeatherMiddleton-p6q Says:
Because it gives you a shield
@christianfinkbeiner684 Says:
No, thanks. I like to take naps and not change shitty diapers.
@282XVL Says:
Respectfully, let me straight up answer these rhetorical questions.
Why do I think a family is a burden? Doing one's duty by family requires a substantial financial and time investment. It creates mutual obligations I would be honour bound to meet forever. The same resources and time could be spent on other pursuits that I simply prefer to enjoy.
Why do I think choice that I may or may not have is freedom? That is because the choice to say NO remains open. I can't say NO with honour to a permanent relationship that I have offered my word of commitment to. Certainly, I can't end that at will without substantial pain on both sides. I don't want to have a partner - I have no desire to negotiate and compromise how I live my life with someone else. It is not everyone else that wants to limit me to less than one partner - it is I who chooses to impose that limit upon myself.
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