What the hell does she think is so inappropriote about the idea of "friend". If you had a little cousin show up from Mongolia.. 11yrs.. Youd be teach teaching them.. "Dont touch that.. Hot.. Burn you. Youd teach them the values of the west. Boundaries.. Helping them navigate.
Why wouldnt you be a "friend".
Jordan says "good friends are honest.. They dont let their friends do stupid shit. You tell them.. "Hey man!! Thats f'ing stupid. Dont do that." THAT is a friend. What am i missing here. Why so different than loving parent. And what teenager with any spirit in them at all is gonna like or listen to this sketchy power focused head case. Shed drive any teenager into the arms of who ever will get them high so they can (for at least a little while) forget they have to go home to her. Yeeesh
@공창목-z6p Says:
고작아무것도 못하는애들이 권위찾는것도 욱껴
@ELra-g7v2v Says:
Well, Madame, how are you gonna make em listen, like truly? I guess her strategy might work out to some degree. But I do also think that the person adopting her philosophy, must be able to project warmth, inspiration and so on. Furthermore, I think that the best thing you can do in order to have your children succeed is being successful yourselves; there's both modelling and resources coming with that
@Robin-qf3oh Says:
Friends? How about being a Mother and a friend? And molding your child to know the difference.
@Rubaki-x6m Says:
Mothers who are “friends” with their children are likely enmeshed. It’s how my mom was with me. I didn’t truly mature until my late 30s. I had many problems in my teens and 20s that took years in counseling to overcome.
If I could relive my childhood, I probably would not be so close to my mom.
@jenniferwildflower4249 Says:
Way too black and white here. The problem with most mentalities including hers, is lack of nuance specific to each child, parent and situation. A good parent is not afraid of being what their child needs and while they may feign whatever they want, kids are not confused by a parent being both an authority and a friend either.
@Random_person98 Says:
Schools already do that and they're taught to be matrix agents as in 1984.
Let the parents educate their children and let schools teach whatever outdated information it's on the menu that day
@kotaguy7 Says:
I mean, you should be there friends, but you should be their parents, first and foremost. Though, knowing jordan, they probably touched on that.
@robertcristando8007 Says:
Not to get off topic but what kind of pattern is that on Jordan’s jacket?
Is he on his way to, or just coming from, a cigar lounge?
@AlexThed Says:
That's a woman.
@thequietman5934 Says:
I always figured being a father was a transcendant role that surpasses friendship, authority figure and teacher. Thoroughly encompassing all.
@DerekOfRivia Says:
She has it wrong. This only goes for the Father. Its a yin and yang. The classic Dad saying "No, go ask your mother" routine. Having parents the way she describes would be very unpleasant.
@mewmew1591 Says:
Order for order itself, better than chaos for chaos itself but horrible
@antoniomonteiro1377 Says:
Sometimes i think that the phrase "school should give moral education" is just a ilusion. This is the role of both parents and religious institutes.
@JourneyMan1-x9o Says:
I disagree with the school giving morals but the rest of the idea is sound. At least in the U.S., schools are messed up.
@mitchlover Says:
I fucking love this lady. Parents who oppose her views are paying or will pay the price. 😅
@daretobeamormon Says:
You had me, you had me, until the school part. Schools cannot do moral formation. They will do ‘pass along societal morals’ formation. It cannot be any other way. Your moral formation at home will have to juxtapose that - unless you think society is very virtuous.
@hadeanseal Says:
I want to add—always make sure your children feel loved and acknowledged. Having to forego being friends with your children does NOT mean you can’t have a friendly, open and loving bond with them. You can have fun with them without dismissing boundaries.
@wanderingnomad1 Says:
Problem with this is that there’s some parents who misuse this authority to become toxic or abusive parents. They think since they’re the boss, it gives them the right to behave however they want. Values and morals are important, that’s why better to be a wise mentor than a boss.
@MarkusAxunIllianus Says:
You can just see how much Jordan Peterson agrees with what she is saying.
@SakshamOfficial-2008 Says:
This video is gonna be used to justify toxic parenting so badd
@uh-ohstinky3581 Says:
Schools, nor governments should be setting moral values.
@BluBlu111 Says:
My dad was my best friend and I miss him dearly.
@alanweis7856 Says:
Wow, this is the completely perfectly incorrect and false.
@Ineosa Says:
I heard this a lot from my mom, and frankly, she couldnt handle the transition from child to adult. She struggled letting go of power, she didnt understand i was becoming a person with opinions and autonomy. We had a really difficult time in our teens because of this exact mantre. I love her now, but you can definitely be both a mother and authority figure and a friend.
@MichaelConroy-o4s Says:
“Don’t you like me,mommy?”👹🔪🪓⛓🔫💣🚬⚰️🪦
@ooolll8902 Says:
You can assert your authority over your kids and be friend with them.
@rezanisse6063 Says:
jordan smile is pricless
@sandraelder1101 Says:
I bow to her wisdom! My hero ❤ ~35 year public school teacher
@HadrianGuardiola Says:
Thank you! I always felt that parebts that insist on being their childs friend are simply abandoning their duties and couching it in nicer sounding terms. They are cheating themselves and their kids.
@LesibanaLedwaba-s6v Says:
He's listening you guys 😢
@AriLael-bp1fy Says:
Is JBP holding back a smile there? I wonder what's on his mind.
@INsty23 Says:
Yeah when someone goes to me my mom is like my best friend . Im like huge red flag.. and these are the people who get gaslighted alot . They believe just about anything .this is what happens when the mother friendzone the child. Child doesnt reach out to socialize and lose out on development
@AurynArhat Says:
Most annoying woman in the UK,of course nobody cancels her cus she is a liberal in right wing clothing.She patronises ppl about how to raise their children while she has none of her own.
Ridiculous
@Im4588-m8t Says:
It’s weird when I see adults say yeah best mates with my kid. Massive red flag
@BrazilMJ Says:
The real fact is…. The fact that this needs to be said out loud shows how society in general is a total lost cause.
@Klemens123 Says:
Wow that's a Karen
@thisguy4505 Says:
Schools should provide UNIVERSALLY ACCEPTED moral formation: don't steal, don't hit, share your crayons, etc. Problems start when the schools begin teaching the morals of a fringe identitarian sect.
@drumroll2716 Says:
Sounds reasonable.
@kellystewart5703 Says:
👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
@loicruco7170 Says:
Molding does not require authority
@niklasnystrom1415 Says:
It really depends on the child at hand. Some need authority and strict guidance. Others need guidance and softness. And everything in between. It is easy to get a generation to obey on command (like the germans growing up in the 30s), but hard to educate them to be good people that does not fall in line under bad leadership. It is just as easy to believe these kinds of cheap truths about upbringing methods because it just feels right to be righteous and hard. This righteousnes might derive from good intentions, but might as well come from religious fanaticism or political views that are extreme. It is not as easy as saying that strict a upbringing is better or worse than a soft one.
@Anonymousstranger1 Says:
Pardon, if they are scared of you they will find friends outside becoming friends of your children and make them recognize good qualities to search for a friend in future
I totally disagree with your thought
School Teachers as well they have to give a month to become emotionally attached to the kid
Curriculum must begin with brain storming
Unfreeze and collaborative activities
If there is a communication gap, the child can't understand and approach the Teacher's thought and facilitate a good education environment
@bisket81 Says:
She looks stressed.
@ericaghelfi3240 Says:
I think you need to be both a friend and a parent both when they are young and when they are older BALANCE.
@DDDJr Says:
Jordan Peterson made some good points in this video
@radiopete7290 Says:
Not the schools responsibly. Their job is programing and indoctrination. No morals are taught at schools.
@brucealmighty9877 Says:
My parents were like this, it hasn't ended well.
@blessings2you435 Says:
STONE FACE on Dr. JP, tho...
@petrohasanko2091 Says:
Different strokes for different folks. Some kids dont need this kind of parental figure others need it. Not every single child is the same.
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